I hate what this story has become and defending Nathan is so low. Nathan knew that Andrew was actively seeking a relationship and held affection for him so yes it is fucked up that he went to go sleep with someone else, yes he is playing with Andrew’s feelings in that moment. You can’t fuck around with a 20 year old expecting them to NOT act like a fucking 20 years old. Nathan is literally pushing 30 he should know better.
And yea it isn’t his job to “fix” Andrew or “baby” him but it’s common fucking decency (if you have any) to not dismiss someone who’s clearly emotionally distressed over something YOU caused. If Nathan just wanted sex he could have said “Hey Andrew just letting you know I’m only entertaining you because you have a huge dick that I want up my ass, no more”. It’s that simple.
If Nathan ACTUALLY wanted a relationship with him then you have to work with that persons insecurities, why? Because that’s what you do for someone you actually care about. If that something you don’t want to put up with then DONT entertain that persons feelings. You want to date a 20 year old? Then be ready to put up with said 20 year old. Sure it’s not wrong if Nathan wants sex and it’s important to him in a relationship, that’s understandable. But what IS wrong is leaving Andrew in that fuckass hotel room after the dumb fuckery Nathan pulled. You can’t say Nathan is more emotional intelligent when he’s clearly not. Oh but if Andrew was a girl Nathan’s actions wouldn’t be this defended (¬_¬)
I hate what this story has become and defending Nathan is so low. Nathan knew that Andrew was actively seeking a relationship and held affection for him so yes it is fucked up that he went to go sleep with someone else, yes he is playing with Andrew’s feelings in that moment. You can’t fuck around with a 20 year old expecting them to NOT act like a fucking 20 years old. Nathan is literally pushing 30 he should know better.
And yea it isn’t his job to “fix” Andrew or “baby” him but it’s common fucking decency (if you have any) to not dismiss someone who’s clearly emotionally distressed over something YOU caused. If Nathan just wanted sex he could have said “Hey Andrew just letting you know I’m only entertaining you because you have a huge dick that I want up my ass, no more”. It’s that simple.
If Nathan ACTUALLY wanted a relationship with him then you have to work with that persons insecurities, why? Because that’s what you do for someone you actually care about. If that something you don’t want to put up with then DONT entertain that persons feelings. You want to date a 20 year old? Then be ready to put up with said 20 year old. Sure it’s not wrong if Nathan wants sex and it’s important to him in a relationship, that’s understandable. But what IS wrong is leaving Andrew in that fuckass hotel room after the dumb fuckery Nathan pulled. You can’t say Nathan is more emotional intelligent when he’s clearly not. Oh but if Andrew was a girl Nathan’s actions wouldn’t be this defended (¬_¬)