Ok so

Before getting to the point
I just want to point out that I am condemning the action of the teacher, THAT is grape, them being friendly with them afterwards is not okay, he should have gone through real consequences. That being said the non-con/dub con I'm talking about is between the main couple or stories similar to the main couple.





Honestly I don't get why ppl hate non con/dub con sm. RAPE is a disgusting act. But you have to know this is fiction and you, the reader should know to separate from fiction and reality. Does watching a horror movie and enjoying it makes you like murder and stuff, no unless ur a psychopath, same thing goes for grapist. If someone reads non con/dub con and normalizes grape, I'm pretty sure they're not a good person in the first place. (If y'all gonna talk about children learning from it, maybe parents should monotize and teach their kids sex ed and what is wrong and right). Nowhere in these mangas are encouraging these acts and telling you to do them, they're mostly written with the thought that this is fiction and people should know how to separate this from reality, if you don't even know how to do that you're either a horrible person or you should not be reading ADULT content. Same thing with "romanticizing grape", some people have kinks or fantasies about it (these types of stories are usually between the two main characters which will develop into a romantic relationship, so when reading the stories there's already a premise of "consent") Nobody is going to want to get grape irl orr romanticize ACTUAL grape. Also these types of stories always contain trigger warnings, so if you read it despite the trigger warnings and then complain about it,.... The fault is honestly on you. If someone were to see the trigger warning and enjoy it and actually normalizes grape irl... I don't think the manga is the problem, it's the person. (bcuz at this point it's just a depiction of fantasies and kink UNLESS the author is a freak and a gross grapist, but most of these types of stories are written by females or occasionally male that have fantasies and kinks about rough sex and being "forced"). Finally these types of books are often or not written for entertainment or just is porn in general, so they're obviously not going to deep dive into these topics and the consequences of it, (between the main couples) unless the story is specifically written for it which obviously this one isn't. That's why most of these stories only includes a few sorrys and a few nice gesture and no real consequences. (Which is already admitting that these actions are wrong and should not be normalized). And for specific circumstances, if a person reading these type of story misunderstands it and think of a situation that they're in with their partner that is considered grape NOT grape, then of course what they need is real help and majority of people are not in those special circumstances so you can't just BAN these type of contents for these individuals (my condolences to the people who are experiencing these types of things, I hope you get out of your situation and get the help you need, and of course I don't mean to shame you if my words came off wrong). Finally all I want to say is when reading a book, specifically a porn book. I think you guys should know to separate fiction from reality and just move on with your day if you don't like it. If it's not your preference just close it and don't read it.