She couldn’t have known that. She probably didn’t assume he was confuse. She prob more so assumed that since he’s *that* much of a player, he decided to be one of those assholes that are like “oh well lemme try what a guy is like. It might be fun”.or that he’s just using him for sex. That’s why she kept saying “think of how he’d feel if u just use him”.
At least that’s my understanding. She thinks being a player is one thing but being too much of a whore that u go after a gay twink just to try something new is next level lol. Cuz remember how he said “maybe I’d get tired of him once we date”
I do think there’s def internalized homophobia there tho. I wonder if she’d have reacted the same way if Garam was an innocent/ serious woman. I doubt she’d have warned him to not use her. At least that’s my understanding. I could be wrong.
I think if it was a woman, she'll probably just laugh it off thinking that it'll fall apart soon because Jaehyuk is that much of a bastard womanizer before. If it was a girl she's close with, she'll definitely be protective and warn him.
She literally asked if he hit his head bc there would be no other explanation for a womanizer like him to date a guy and was creep out by him actually caring for someone as a lover. She very much implied HAS to be confused to be in love with a guy
The only reason why she said "think abt how he would feel" was bc every other argument she use was not getting through. Since the start of the conversation she didn't show real sympathy for Garam, she was just trying to get JK to stop being w a man
I get her but I don't, I mean your friend who IS a womanizer, who has never show any real interest or respect of a single one of his flings is on a date with a man. And you know he's been talking abt this man for a while and now hes actually dating him and also pulls you aside tell you he's serious abt him and to let them be
And you wholeheartedly assume he's just confused? The man who could never be in a real relationship with a woman and you know since childhood is now IN LOVE and treating a person like his most precious treasure and you think that's impossible? Like idk if it was me I would be surprised, sure, but I would instantly go "that explains it"