Wtf did Andrew do? Nathan is the one who is rushing him to have sex with him
He’s so insecure and immature If you’re not ready for physical than stay away from intimate relationships until you’re ready don’t waste peoples emotions and time
So you are into rushing people to have sex with you and if they aren't ready you make them feel bad about themselves
okay that's a crazy thing to say if you're not ready for sex you shouldn't date at all?? i hope you know how rapey that sounds
No its not like that
being in a relationship that you're the only one that initiates things or having a relationship with someone whos insecure and not being honest with you it's just exausting no one wants that a relationship is about give and take this is not give and take How can you trust someone that cannot even be honest about what is wrong and just leaves his partner constantly confused ??!!!
No its not
Sex is a normal part of romantic relationships and it helps people feel closer and more connected to their partner If someone is not ready for sex it can cause confusion problems in the relationship Starting a relationship without talking about these important things can lead to fights and hurt feelings for both people Andrew is not being honest with Nathan that’s the issues I’m not saying he should rush him to have sex if you’re not ready just walk away
People just want to act dumb with this subject but it’s very easy. When you know you’re not in a good state to want to in an intimate relationship, what do you do? You don’t get in any because you don’t want to end up feeling like you’re being pressured into doing something you’re not ready for. And worse when the person of interest is a very sexually open person!!! People just want to make excuses for Andrew without actually thinking realistically about this whole situation.
im not talking out of my ass (if you'll excuse my language) since im in a similar situation, my bf is well, a virgin and i literally dont mind waiting until he's ready. like yeah andrew could've communicated shit better but saying you can't be in a relationship with someone who's sexual if u can't have sex right away is bad and i need you to really think on why. relationships aren't just one thing and people aren't just one thing. andrew def has some self esteem problems and i respect nathan for saying fuck no cause hell, maybe i would've too if i didn't realize how awesome my boyfriend makes my life aside from the sex shit. the problem here is just u guys misdirecting the frustration towards him not being ready for sex when it's really about communication and compatibility. please don't go around saying if you're not ready for sex you shouldn't date a sexually liberated person. that's wrong and borderline rapey. your views on this story are p much motivated by your real life views. no hate to you specifically tho.
If I were nathan i would’ve end everything I can’t stand people like Andrew they are on different levels emotionally physically im so mad