
Yes, I know all about “no means yes” in yaoi/BL and frankly the romance genre as a whole and then yeah the uke ends up enjoying it…as I’ve explained before though, even if you want to spin it like that, then that means what you’re reading is a rape/ravishment fantasy, which still crucially includes the element of nonconsent in it, lol. It’s just that the nonconsent means something different there.
That said I think it’s important to take the context around what’s happening into consideration when deciding what is ACTUALLY happening in the scene. Like again, Dan wouldn’t have had sex with Jaekyung period if he didn’t need the money. And actually yeah, Dan did try to escape, he did struggle, but Jaekyung would threaten him or physically force him to do things so of course he eventually just stayed put. Like Dan goes and sits in the shower for an hour or so (Jaekyung’s own words) because he was scared, only for Jaekyung to just come in and throw him on the bed. And then literally when Jaekyung starts trying to put it in Dan tries crawling away. And then Jaekyung just grabs him and shoves it in his ass anyway.
Anyway idk I don’t remember the Jaekyung drunk fucking incident, sure, maybe he enjoyed it then because things were going at his own pace and at that point I think he’s developed feelings for Jaekyung. What does that have to do with their first time together, when they were nothing but strangers to one another, and Jaekyung was the one in control? Is this some sick gotcha? “Ha so then Dan raped Jaekyung too!” Yeah, and? I’ll be consistent. The dynamics there are different but that’s that.

God please use common sense and just. Human empathy and decency. You’re telling me if you were having sex with someone and they kept telling you to stop or wait or hold up for ANY reason, whether because of plain embarrassment or fear, you just wouldn’t stop? You wouldn’t check in on them and ask what’s up and if you guys need to have like, a proper conversation before going further? Seriously?

Ah yeah, not to mention, the context before and after the incident. Dan just saw this guy fucking bash his previous sex partner in prior to them fucking. Dan also did not come into that apartment expecting that he would be propositioned for sex, he thought he was just going to give a massage, so Jaekyung just straight lied to him—even Dan thinks to himself that he was set up. I can pull up the exact words. And then afterwards, Dan is in so much pain and so depressed about it he lays in bed for like. A week after it happens? Idk man that doesn’t seem like typical yaoi/BL shit. Ain’t he suppose to walk away mostly unscathed if not perhaps a bit shaken, maybe more attracted to Jaekyung? lol

Have you heard of the word "fantasy"? I assume you're big enough to understand that ppl have thoughts that they can't speak up. Those fantasies never hurt anyone (god don't go searching for specific ppl that killed/raped other ppl because of their weird fantasies, those ppl have mental essues -_- I don't have all night ok?).
I don't have empathy for fictional characters, I mean I cried watching Demon slayer etc but in yaoi especially IN YAOI! Uke don't make me cry._. I want the seme to crush the them :| cute aggression in psychology, I love the fact that it starts by being desperate/pathetic/fragile and then this USELESS PURE thing slowly becomes everything to the big/rich/handsome seme :D FUJOSHI DANAAAA
I just have to keep reminding myself that this isn't a actual BL but a smut, smh. If he goes back to that man, I'm gonna kms. Also, the people that don't want Jaekyung to suffer any more, simple words, fuck you.