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Also i forgot that the element of "shame" is there. You notice how some uke's actually say "no" when they're feeling REALLY good and there's this speech bubble saying "what am i doing" or along the lines of "my body is changing" or like "what was the sound i'm making" maybe they're just really shy and so they say no, no don't change me any further might be it or just no because the sensation is overwhelming something like that.
While I really appreciate a seme who gets fully naked for sex along with the uke, I do not get why so many mangaka seem to feel that "No, don't, stop" is normal sexy talk while getting it on. It just makes it sound rapey even when it's not. I like that this manga has quite a big focus on consent (although only regarding actual penetration) - Kaji repeatedly makes it clear that he won't put it in until Kobayakawa says he wants to, and Kobayakawa clearly gives consent before they DO go all the way. So then why is all the sex talk from him "Ah, please stop, don't, no, no"?? Is this a Japanese cultural difference? Is it supposed to imply embarrassment and thus make the uke more appealing? Is it meant to sound sexy?? I love the sex scenes in manga when it's all "Yes, that feels so good, do it more" etc., but they're not as common as I'd like (〜 ̄△ ̄)〜