Being with someone who overthinks isn’t easy, especially in relationships. That's draining to look at TT but most people don’t really get what it’s like to be in their shoes. Overthinking can be overwhelming, but it usually comes from a fear of getting hurt. They would overthink everything and prepare for the worst-ike a breakup, not because they want it to happen, but because it’s their way of protecting themselves from the pain. It’s not that they don’t care. In fact, they care a lot. It’s just their way of trying to cope.
For their partner, though it can feel exhausting. Constantly having to reassure them, address their worries, and deal with their ‘what ifs’ takes a toll. It can start to feel like they’re always waiting for something to go wrong, and that can create tension. Over time it makes the relationship feel heavier than it should be. specially when he/she doesn't bring their problems fearing that their partner would get an ick if they do so.
BUTTT, they really don't like it either. it's drains them out more than you think.
Being with someone who overthinks isn’t easy, especially in relationships. That's draining to look at TT but most people don’t really get what it’s like to be in their shoes. Overthinking can be overwhelming, but it usually comes from a fear of getting hurt. They would overthink everything and prepare for the worst-ike a breakup, not because they want it to happen, but because it’s their way of protecting themselves from the pain. It’s not that they don’t care. In fact, they care a lot. It’s just their way of trying to cope.
For their partner, though it can feel exhausting. Constantly having to reassure them, address their worries, and deal with their ‘what ifs’ takes a toll. It can start to feel like they’re always waiting for something to go wrong, and that can create tension. Over time it makes the relationship feel heavier than it should be. specially when he/she doesn't bring their problems fearing that their partner would get an ick if they do so.
BUTTT, they really don't like it either. it's drains them out more than you think.
I'M GUILTY GUYS