They were together for 6 YEARS tho so give her some grace. Plus that was her first love. I’d personally say they’re moving on at a good pace but they haven’t acknowledged it yet
from her pov, except during early relationship when she was insecure, she has had a very lovely and healthy relationship with a man who treated her with respect.
This is what, their second meeting after breakup? She's just trying to process his intentions
no and i 100% get that moving on after that relationship takes time but that’s the problem she’s not trying to move on…? she came up with some elaborate plan to try to win her ex back? like i love the story and i love both the fl and the ml but like cmon guys sometimes it does get embarrassing reading
again like i’m not bashing her guys i truly love her and the premise of the story but you do have to admit sometimes her thinking gets a bit repetitive and borderline childish? i don’t think that’s the right word but ill use it for because i can’t think of anything else. but truly sometimes i get secondhand embarrassment watching her chase that man around the globe and that’s okay like she’s still my fav i can just acknowledge sometimes its embarrassing
I get what ur saying but it would be a dif story if he did something more severe like cheat. She’s the one who broke up w him on her own accord because she felt sad her feelings weren’t truly reciprocated for so long. It’s harder to get over someone in that case. She wants him to yearn for her and get jealous after seeing her w someone else bc she wants to see if he actually can want her and it’s not one sided all along. That was 6 very long years and I think this sort of response isn’t out of the ordinary. Ideally we all want to move on after 2 weeks max but that’s not how feelings work realistically. There’s no off switch for emotion (●￣(ｴ)￣●)
yeah and i understand that i’m not trying to say that that she needs to turn off her emotions for the matter. it’s just after being together with someone for 6 years she finds out that all was a lie, he did not see her that way and was really was only dating her out of obligation for saving his dad i think that’s worse than cheating tbh. like cheating (not trying to justify) is someone that is quick but like they were almost going to get married and bro said he didn’t love her and didn’t see her as a woman i feel that does more damage than being cheated on bc wdym?? so for 6 years you never saw me that way? so i think me wanting her to move on already stems from that alone?? i don’t know like smth abt her ex makes me annoyed and i want her to be annoyed w me away from him
honestly she pissing me off w her ex bf.. like girl pls stand up that man don’t want you pls move on