Yeah and dismissing the ones she considers as family like that as if they were nothing and yes this talk would need to be brought up but dude you just came back into her life how can you ask her to consider you like her family and like you said it’s obvious he doesn’t know her at all
GOD I FORGOT HE SAID THAT. now i'm even more pissed off. he did say let's live like a real family. fuck him for real.
yeah! he's the one that needs to make the effort to be in her life. which i've said in another comment. he needs to move near her, and get her to get used to him etc. not just hang out for a couple of days and go "let's live together". a child is still a human being deserving of love and respect. AHHHHHHHHHHHH
Yeah like you’re not gonna change a child’s whole world because YOU want to be part of it after YOU left you need be the one to change your life to fit the child’s life
that's how it works when you're adopting someone too (where i live), you need to move to where they're staying at (if they live in another city or far away) for like a week? a month? (can't remember how long) to even see if it would work out etc. so just because it's your child by blood doesn't mean shit. you're the grown up, deal with it. you should care for your kid's wellbeing like her uncle does. ppl like this piss me off...
anyway thank you for agreeing with me <3
I think we both needed to vent
so true
first of all i'm just clapping for how they're trying to figure things out. that truly was beautiful. they love her so much and want what's best for her, even if they'll suffer from it. i loved it.
but goddamnit her dad is a fucking idiot. yes you need to ask her what she wants. but not there, not then and not how you did it. you need to give her more time, you need to talk to her while she's with the ppl she considers family etc. i know he didn't do it with bad intentions but holy shit, tell me he doesn't know anything about his daughter without telling me he doesn't know anything about his daughter. does he not know she has abandonment issues etc? like??? bro!!! i'm so sad for her. again i know i'm being harsh on him but I'M UPSET