Eeeyyy fellow ace and 100% same boat lol i enjoy the drama and feels, no desire irl.
Really out of pure curiosity, do you not feel the slightest bit horny after reading all this? If that’s rude to ask, I’m sorry, but I‘m genuinely curious. That’s what’s interesting about sexuality, because no matter what, I can’t avoid it after reading something like this. And I‘m not saying desire for someone else necessarily, just the feeling of being horny and tingly.
Hmm i think i get some vicarious satisfaction but usually the smut is simply too absurd to actually do anything for me.
Ngl when you’ve had good sex, the world changes lmao. But I’ve never wanted to be in those scenarios.. that’s a little too much for me
Nah i sometimes do get horny or like the fire in my belly feeling (tho happens w non sexual romance as well), i also get off occasionally, but it’s never me imagining myself, it’s confusing but more like im not me but someone else (tho i think a lot of ppl do that esp if ur female reading bl etc). But irl I get bored doing anything sexual and usually don’t feel turned on at all, which has happened with both female and male partners. It could also be meds lowering my sex drive but like, i am soo repulsed by getting anything done to me so who knows. Ive only recently starting identifying as ace but generally im labelless since sexuality is just so confusing TT
just me rambling but how is sex so enjoyable to read yet i have no desire whatsoever to experience any of this irl (ik most yaoi no one would ever want to experience but even this type which is pretty healthy) like do u all wish to be in these scenarios or are u happy reading from the sidelines too