Ummm

Hua LanXia January 6, 2025 12:51 am

The adoption thing is just creeping me out.....

Responses
    illuminate January 15, 2025 7:47 am

    this is an ignorant comment - gay marriage is still illegal in korea and for a long time adoption was the only way gay couples could have legal protection

    https://en.m.wikipedia.org/wiki/Same-sex_adult_adoption

    Hua LanXia January 15, 2025 8:16 am
    this is an ignorant comment - gay marriage is still illegal in korea and for a long time adoption was the only way gay couples could have legal protection https://en.m.wikipedia.org/wiki/Same-sex_adult_adoption illuminate

    I know that gay marriage as not alloved, but still adoption in my mind meand they getting father-son relationship, so for me is creepy.

    illuminate January 15, 2025 1:24 pm

    right…and it’s not creepy. you’re just being obtuse.

    Hua LanXia January 15, 2025 2:02 pm
    right…and it’s not creepy. you’re just being obtuse. illuminate

    So you said I'm dumb because I'm having my own opinion? Some people thinking snakes disgusting, same saying they are lovely. We have different opinion, you sould learn to respect others and othersl people thoughts and opinion.

    illuminate January 15, 2025 3:06 pm

    no i don’t, not on this case. do you think same sex couples want to adopt each other? no, they want the same rights as straight people but they legally cannot. they have to resort to using a system not really meant for romantic couples so they have some semblance of legal protection - the ability to pass on property or receive benefits when their loved ones pass away. so for you to be like ewwww icky without understanding why and then doubling down on it is absurd. i absolutely do not have to respect your opinion.

    Hua LanXia January 15, 2025 6:15 pm
    no i don’t, not on this case. do you think same sex couples want to adopt each other? no, they want the same rights as straight people but they legally cannot. they have to resort to using a system not really... illuminate

    I understand why they do it, but as somebody who grow up in completly different culture, adpotion means that you adopting a child from an orphange because you can't have one, because you want onemore etc. For me adoption means that the person who adopted going to became a child and the other one becaming a parent. This is why I found icky in this story the adoption.

    saliva January 21, 2025 5:46 am
    I understand why they do it, but as somebody who grow up in completly different culture, adpotion means that you adopting a child from an orphange because you can't have one, because you want onemore etc. For m... Hua LanXia

    adoption is simply the need of family