Fr bro they really pick and choose lol
Btw you’re really well spoken!
People love toxic and abusive relationship. It’s “boring and plain” otherwise.
They literally need cheap and easy drama, tiktok and a low attention span really ruined the BL community like be for real. At least no one was excusing/forgetting jitae for being an asshole, Jian is being cradled cuz he’s obviously mentally ill.
And that’s the problem with “woke” people on the internet. They act like people struggling with mental illness are self destructive machines. Jian is still fully able to conclude, comprehend and has no problem with any kind of decision making - as he was the main culprit to for building the cage jitae was in all those years.
Perfect are also forgetting that both grew up in the same environment. But only one lost his mother, his friend, and was frowned upon his entire life. While the other somehow ended up being a substance abuser and gangbang activist like huh.?
A big thumbs up to this. You can’t control what happens to you in life but you can control how you react to it. Of course, depression, anxiety, you name it — these are mental illnesses you have no control over, but you can choose how to address them, by either seeking professional help and/or taking properly care of yourself. And with their social standing, I’m pretty sure Jian can afford these, but no, he’d rather turn to drugs and unhealthy sex, and wallow in self-pity. And of course, he also has to drag other people into his hell.
I love the main couple which is why I’m reading this but I’m now considering dropping this because every time I open a new chapter, I always see a section of the second couple. Hopefully they just allot certain seasons for each couple.
Yes I agree, it is definitely possible for people who struggle with mental illness to have difficulties making the right decisions. But with Jian, it’s NOT the case.
I’ve been considering dropping this as well because this series really shows me how completely split this community has gotten - it’s one point to disagree with another but some are literally shitting on people who have a different view. But we shouldn’t let this bring us down!! This is still a very good series, we shouldn’t drop this
Yes, I hope everyone in this community learns to respect each and everyone’s respective views on various matters. Some things might be triggering on others, and that’s fine. We can be different and still be respectful of one another.
Crazy how certain audiences find their way onto stories that have less toxic relationship main couple and then hope for more of the actual toxic relationship couple lmao. I’m just confused cause where were y’all when there’s actual main couple red flag stories and those ones are getting hated on by the green flag lovers. If y’all don’t get your asses over to Into the thrill, sand castle, red mansion, etc. - and show those stories some love
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Anywayssss, despite me liking both red flag relationships and green flag ones, this second couple isn’t really standing out to me. Maybe it’s cause I don’t feel as attached to their reasonings and goals. I’m more surprised that there are quite a lot of certain apologists fighting to defend their fave character due to their unhappy lifestyle- but y’all do still need to acknowledge the wrongs that character has done still. His trauma and pain doesn’t cover up that same actions he did to others. You can of course love the guy for his character while still acknowledging he was dead wrong for the shit he did though lol. I guess I’m not enjoying the second couple as much because the author pulled the move that I typically get annoyed by, which is putting too much screentime on a different couple when the main couple’s story isn’t even over yet. Like they can get a whole season to themselves later, it’s just a pet peeve when the main characters hardly get shown cause of all the other stuff wanting to be included.