I actually understand him like a lot is not just "I woke up today and find out I will to marry a stranger" is more like "I woke up to find out my whole was I lie, I don't even know how my body works because things that I was supposed to learn as child I am learning going to university, also my family the ones i shoul trust also lied to me about you know everything, but I am supposed to follow all those rules get married and hopefully give birth to an heir but just last week I didn't fucking know I could get pregnant, and I have this random dude that apparently knows me since forever and is been following me because I can smell him I now even if he doesn't mean I feel even more used and hateful about everything"
In my opinion but do see where you coming from the seme looks to perfect is like the plot is forcing the use to be an ass even when he is clearly the victim
i mean think about it. you’re going to school, living a regular life w regular people problems and then now you find out your parents have lied to you, you’re marrying someone you DONT know andddd you can’t even go to school anymore. every decision you ever make is not yours anymore. but he’s SO unreasonable and stubborn. he fails to see life from the seme’s perspective and demands things go back to normal when that cannot and will never happen. he’s they type of person that has to learn the hard way which makes him a difficult character to like. but he’s a great foil character to our seme.