I’m starting not to like Euntak, but I can understand his point of view, he wants to be out with friends, he wants to take care of his friend, and he wants to be free, but he also wants to keep his sexuality a secret and whoever he dates to be a secret as well because he’s scared that people would judge him.
Though Dojae is possessive and may seem like he doesn’t ‘care’ about Euntak's feelings, Dojae does his best to understand and take into consideration how Euntak feels, and also puts Euntak's feelings first before his. Making euntak his first priority. Euntak seems like he doesn’t care about Dojae's feelings and only thinks about himself and his own feelings. Whenever Dojae shows a little bit how he feels, Euntak gets mad at him for no reason. Euntak should understand that Dojae is feeling insecure about his relationship with his friend because they had ‘sex’ before, and he always talks about him. What if the roles were reversed? He would’ve been angry as well that Dojae is taking care of the person that he had ‘sex’ with before.
So my point is that you should care about your partner's feelings as well and not yours only. Making boundaries is a good thing, but if your partner confesses how they feel about your relationship with someone else knowing you guys did stuff with each other, don’t get mad at them. Try to understand their point of view and talk things out and see what you and your partner should do to make things comfortable for the both of you.
I’m starting not to like Euntak, but I can understand his point of view, he wants to be out with friends, he wants to take care of his friend, and he wants to be free, but he also wants to keep his sexuality a secret and whoever he dates to be a secret as well because he’s scared that people would judge him.
Though Dojae is possessive and may seem like he doesn’t ‘care’ about Euntak's feelings, Dojae does his best to understand and take into consideration how Euntak feels, and also puts Euntak's feelings first before his. Making euntak his first priority. Euntak seems like he doesn’t care about Dojae's feelings and only thinks about himself and his own feelings. Whenever Dojae shows a little bit how he feels, Euntak gets mad at him for no reason. Euntak should understand that Dojae is feeling insecure about his relationship with his friend because they had ‘sex’ before, and he always talks about him. What if the roles were reversed? He would’ve been angry as well that Dojae is taking care of the person that he had ‘sex’ with before.
So my point is that you should care about your partner's feelings as well and not yours only. Making boundaries is a good thing, but if your partner confesses how they feel about your relationship with someone else knowing you guys did stuff with each other, don’t get mad at them. Try to understand their point of view and talk things out and see what you and your partner should do to make things comfortable for the both of you.