To be fair, taking care of Jaekyung was probably Dan’s way of not confronting his problems; he could tolerate the pain of Jaekyung because then he had someone to blame for living such a lonely, miserable life. And be thankful for the help of surviving.
Dan thrives on community and connection, and he lost all that when he ‘injured’ Jaekyung. Because he’s been living for other people so long, he doesn’t know how to live for himself. I felt bad for the grandma…she probably wants to see Dan thrive, even at the price of leaving her behind. To see him waste away and have him die by suicide because she said she wanted to go to the beach would kill her immediately.
If there is any hope for Jaekyung, i hope he can put his selfishness aside for 2 months and completely care for Dan until he has the courage to stand up again. Dan needs to figure out what he wants from life after his grandma dies. If he doesn’t find out, he’ll attempt again, and I don’t think Jaekyung will be able to stop him. I’m worried Jaejyung might give up on him…but he knows damn well nobody else is in a position to do it. He better learn some humbleness at how difficult it is to take care of a human being!!!!!
To be fair, taking care of Jaekyung was probably Dan’s way of not confronting his problems; he could tolerate the pain of Jaekyung because then he had someone to blame for living such a lonely, miserable life. And be thankful for the help of surviving.
Dan thrives on community and connection, and he lost all that when he ‘injured’ Jaekyung.
Because he’s been living for other people so long, he doesn’t know how to live for himself. I felt bad for the grandma…she probably wants to see Dan thrive, even at the price of leaving her behind. To see him waste away and have him die by suicide because she said she wanted to go to the beach would kill her immediately.
If there is any hope for Jaekyung, i hope he can put his selfishness aside for 2 months and completely care for Dan until he has the courage to stand up again.
Dan needs to figure out what he wants from life after his grandma dies. If he doesn’t find out, he’ll attempt again, and I don’t think Jaekyung will be able to stop him. I’m worried Jaejyung might give up on him…but he knows damn well nobody else is in a position to do it. He better learn some humbleness at how difficult it is to take care of a human being!!!!!