I don't understand the dislike/blame for Yoo Won that I keep seeing. Why is it bad to end ...

Viira April 28, 2017 12:15 am

I don't understand the dislike/blame for Yoo Won that I keep seeing. Why is it bad to end a relationship that you don't think is good for you? It doesn't mean you don't love or care about the other person, that they're not good looking, etc etc...just sometimes things don't work out, sometimes life gets in the way. You have to do what you think is best for yourself at the time, even if that means giving up an important person in your life.

Also, I don't think Yoo Won ignores Hee Bum to be rude. He knows how much Hee Bum isn't over the break up so he is actually doing something very kind for Hee Bum by trying to keep distance between them. It is so much harder to move on and stop feeling like shit (for both people) when you keep talking and being around each other after you've broken up. You need serious time and space away from each other, to truly move on, before you can be around each other again. This is true even for bad relationships. Even when the person makes you feel bad...its hard to just let go when you have been emotionally involved for so long.

Responses
    carvanniv April 28, 2017 1:07 am

    you say it all sister, amen for thatヾ(❀╹◡╹)ノ~

    manganiME April 28, 2017 9:04 am

    I like him. I like Hee. I like Jumi. I just find that Hee and Jumi are more approachable, though Yoo Won seems more reliable. I think the reaction is that 1. we see Hee Bum's broken heart and 2. we don't really see Yoo Won's emotions. People tend to sympathize with the person who is clearly, openly hurting.

    I think that's why so many are rooting for all three to be happy. I actually don't care what form the happy ending takes. I want all three smiling.

    manganiME April 28, 2017 9:06 am

    And also, we don't really know what Yoo Won is thinking. WE GUESS. You don't actually know why Yoo Won broke up for sure, not with the chapters we have here. You are guessing. We're all guessing. Because their love story/background/etc is still pretty much in the dark.

    Since we assume Yoo Won is a good guy, we assume he's got a good reason. But when the story focuses mostly on the heartbroken guy, our reader sympathies heap that way--and the author has forced that.

    Viira April 28, 2017 4:56 pm
    And also, we don't really know what Yoo Won is thinking. WE GUESS. You don't actually know why Yoo Won broke up for sure, not with the chapters we have here. You are guessing. We're all guessing. Because their ... manganiME

    Dude can you stop replying to all my Yoo Won posts. Like...okay thanks for your input, I've heard lots and lots of your opinion. I think we have exhausted the conversation that the two of us alone can have on the subject. All you keep doing is explaining to me, what I have already inferred and understand as I have a functioning brain. I know its all speculation, and thats exactly what the comment section is for. So really, its okay for you to stop picking apart my comments to try to find flaw in my thinking or whatever you're trying to do. Thanks dude, I get it. You just say the same things 100 different ways. I know what you're trying to communicate already. At this point I don't even want to comment on this story anymore if you're gonna leave a string of comments telling me to what we can all see with our own eyes and infer with our own brains. I'm not saying all that stuff because its obvious and its not the subject I think would make for a more interesting conversation.

    Again thank you, but I want nothing more to do with the conversation. We are just at dead ends and discussing different ways to think at this point.

    manganiME April 28, 2017 5:08 pm
    Dude can you stop replying to all my Yoo Won posts. Like...okay thanks for your input, I've heard lots and lots of your opinion. I think we have exhausted the conversation that the two of us alone can have on t... Viira

    Honestly, didn't even notice your name. I reply to the comments and NEVER read the names (does it matter?)

    I will reply to any comment I feel like responding to. You are not the God of me. YOu don't get to tell me who to reply to. If you dont want responses, don't post.