I know far too many feminine gay men who are proudly men for y’all to camp in this comment section, misgender a character with your whole chest, and not see anything wrong with it. The only justification offered seems to be that he likes cute, “feminine” things and once expressed wishing he were a “girl” so he could be more accepted in a binary country and society like Japan. Do y’all hear yourselves? Are we seriously equating someone’s preferences or self-expression with their gender identity?
Let’s pause and reflect—do we agree or disagree that being a woman is defined by liking certain things or behaving in a specific way? Are we still clinging to outdated ideas of a rigid binary, or do we accept that identity and expression exist on a spectrum? Y’all have to choose. Let’s not reduce people to stereotypes. If everything thought like y’all, I’d have to pack my bag and stop being a woman because, like all of you all, I’m not a stereotype.
I know far too many feminine gay men who are proudly men for y’all to camp in this comment section, misgender a character with your whole chest, and not see anything wrong with it. The only justification offered seems to be that he likes cute, “feminine” things and once expressed wishing he were a “girl” so he could be more accepted in a binary country and society like Japan. Do y’all hear yourselves? Are we seriously equating someone’s preferences or self-expression with their gender identity?
Let’s pause and reflect—do we agree or disagree that being a woman is defined by liking certain things or behaving in a specific way? Are we still clinging to outdated ideas of a rigid binary, or do we accept that identity and expression exist on a spectrum? Y’all have to choose. Let’s not reduce people to stereotypes. If everything thought like y’all, I’d have to pack my bag and stop being a woman because, like all of you all, I’m not a stereotype.
Y’all are a confusing lot.