I agree a lot. As a reader, as an outsider it might cause so much frustration and anger, like "wdym you let this person destroy you just like that, just like a fool" but its actually something very realistic. Not too long ago i heard from multiple friends going through bad relationships and no matter how much you tell them, they can't let go. And i even thought wow their stories are so crazy, you'd think its from a movie, a book, anything fictional. But even more recently ive experienced something similar and i found myself thinking: wow so this is what it felt like. It can happen so easily if you get attached to someone sadly.
Exactly I couldn’t see how toxic and bad he was even tho everyone was saying that and warning me to not get attached thankfully I wasn’t that deeply into him but the moment I stopped liking him his whole appearance changed in my eyes feelings really make u blind so i get ml also i get why he is scared and anxious his feelings are portrayed beautifully author is really doing such a good job i wish i could see other side too
Actually i get him so much when u like someone u can’t see their red flags and his anxiety is so real i think author is doing such a good job to express what anxiety and confusion looks like during toxic situationship