I low-key think it's partially his fault for the miscarriage. Not sure whether they will be including it in the webtoon but... The doctor advised them not to have sex because FL's body was already weak in the first place but Bjorn obviously ignored that. The miscarriage happened shortly right after that.
Even though he knew (the doctor told him) that FL's body was too weak to have a baby, he barely spent time with her at all. Instead he was always outside, which includes having a meeting outside.
It's not wrong to be excited over a baby, but it's awful to not accompany your wife. I think, as a woman, if my partner was never there for me it becomes worse when they are also not there for me when I'm on the verge of death.
During the miscarriage there was a possibility that she would die. ML wasn't there to make a quick decision, prolonging her torture during the procedure cause there was no permission by the ML.
but you do realise that in society today everything youre blaming him for is literally normal, him not being with her 24/7 was their relationship since the beginning, you can’t entirely blame him because she was also stressed about the gossips and the hate she was getting from literally everyone. Having sex during pregnancy is also a really common thing and there’s barely cases of miscarriages due to it, it was probably stress and anxiety that caused her miscarriage. I mean i am upset that he wasn’t there for her but you have to understand that he’s a complex character who also experienced trauma and betrayal with his previous child
But I mean like... Bruh I will drop a guy like that. I don't expect a guy to be with me 24/7 but he doesn't even spend time with her AT ALL. That's the difference. Also, it's normal to have sex during pregnancy but would you really still do it if the doctor warns against it? I'd like to believe most people wouldn't since if I know about my partner's fragile condition+ doctor's advice. This is like... People who smoke and ends up with lung cancer. It's like... You know it, you just choose not to abide it. Even in real life, I would never have a partner like that - one that disregards my condition, needs and doctor's advice.
To add, having sex during pregnancy CAN actually cause miscarriage IF the woman's physical body is not in a good condition, which she showed symptoms of already. Apparently it causes more bleeding or sth.
In addition to my last reply, y'all don't have to see the perspective I do, it's honestly agree to disagree.
Regardless of his trauma, it doesn't excuse a person's deeds. If a criminal has trauma, does it excuse his actions? I'm afraid not, cause one's actions is one's responsibility the moment you're an adult. BUT this is a sensitive topic and there's no right answer to be honest, it's just based off on individual perspective.
Spoiler alert, yall are gonna hate (him) so hard I just know
She's gonna lost the baby, after a night with bjorn. What's worst it's that she was having cramps until the next day.
The day after bjorn is in a meeting at bank, and he asked to the others men there what's kinda of toys a kid can have. They gave him a few recommendations, and he goes to the plaza to find and buy a toy to his child.
Meanwhile he's doing that, Erna is screaming crying hard and calling for bjorn, at that moment there's a doctor attending her cus shes bleeding and the headmaid called him (bjorn) for and the doc too
the thing bjorn arrived late after all the damn thing after that the relationship between Erna and bjorn started to fall apart until she decided to go to her grandma in the middle of the night
There's a lot of details that I maybe forget but yeah