Um

maybe not but sihyun also the type of guy to get off on being tied up and thrown down a flight of stairs

LMFAOOOOOOO cuz this isn’t even an exaggeration

Oh yeah he’s definitely giving masochist and that’s kinky that’s freaky that’s BDSM vibes he definitely gives Dom brat outside the bedroom sub in the bedroom but choking ain’t freaky freak activity most straight/vanilla people have been or have or like choking and Erotic asphyxiation (EA) is really light play and a very common kink it’s very surface level compared to other breath play

It's freaky to me lmao

Let me also mention that when choking your partner it’s for pleasure so you push on the sides of the neck blocking blood flow not as much damage and no pressure on the airways but he did want it darker by pressing the front which is blocking airflow and putting pressure on the airways which could be severely damaging or even deadly that’s like real choking not for play you could crush someone’s windpipe it literally takes 4 pounds of pressure in less than 10 seconds to seriously hurt/damage/crush a windpipe

yeah but also considering the fact that bro hasnt even had an interest in sex in general until now the fact that he immediately wants to be choked and degraded is noteable .. he didnt even think about it

in the novel he also dgaf about safe words or any other kind of kink safety so hes freaky in a stupid way . god bless him

Oh baby there’s nothing wrong with that I’m not kink shaming but more so kink explaining choking is more on the vanilla freaky side than the kinky freaky side like it’s 100% cool fine and dandy and somebody will match that freak but it’s a very tame level of freaky and low kink like I said it’s very common like a foot fetish type of thing it’s really low on the play scale and extremely low in terms of breath play people put themselves in control situations of breathing like drowning emulation, hanging, vacuums, people even wear full suits where you cannot breathe and your partner controls your oxygen intake choking is cool I’m not putting it down it’s just not it’s just not super kink real freak shit

My love I’m not saying this man ain’t a freak I’m saying choking ain’t freaky and in terms of kinks a lot of kinks come from childhood/trauma and plain experience not to mention a lot of people’s pain and pleasure receptors cross and i think his kink stems from the military he liked when he was forcefully kissed and then they fought that probably set him off and he could have engaged in self play or porn it’s extremely rare for a inexperienced individual to just jump into play but my point is I’m just saying people are acting like this was super freaky and it very vanilla in terms of play it’s like spanking or biting very common and low level especially when you know about play/bdsm, gay culture or just based off other books on here

agreed i think the military impacted him a lot .... but i also think perhaps hes just born to be a brat