True! It does have consent issues. The BL community tends to hype up anyone who's not a horrible human being as a 'green flag' even if they're a rapist
im also nearly half way and honestly agreed. green flag? like where babes, where? how low are the standards green. on top of that this ahjussi is so bland. he honestly feels like a real ahjussi; you know the type that actually act their age and 20 something years old can't relate to? yep that's them. the author has done fantastic job at portraying what dating someone way older than you looks like. bland and very different. this is what dating someone at a different life stage from you looks like. idk if it will get better but ill see it thru
Though it out
From someone who has read many BL with a green flag top, that is nowhere near green flag. A green flag seme would never say any of that shit to the uke, how the fuck is "would it kill the brat to do it once" a green flag?! You got to be fucking kidding me, really?! The top may not be a bad person, but he's definitely not a green flag. These people don't even know what a green flag top/seme looks like, 9.7 rating my ass. Nah, fuck their comments. I agree with you
Idk man, I might be the only person on earth who didn't like this. I gave it a shot because it's universally praised, but dropped it about halfway through. I feel like I was reading a different story or something, because I was promised a green flag top and smut with no consent issues and I personally don't feel like that was the case. The sex scenes really ruined it for me - they made me super uncomfortable and tbh I really don't understand why everyone likes Gunwoo so much. He's not all bad but I will never call a guy who tells his partner to "quit whining" and "tough it out" when they're in pain and ignores them literally saying "please get off, let me go, I want to go home" a green flag. The one time Eui Joon turned down sex because he was so sore Gunwoo's thought process was "would it kill the brat to do it once?" Not cute.