Idk watch arcane, 99% of the characters are super hot so you bound to crush on someone
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I feel you. I also ask these questions about love myself, and it's not easy even though it looks so easy when you see people simply fall in love, dating and just happily get together, separating and getting with someone else... That makes me sometimes melancolic to be single, but when I think about all the troubles relationships can bring, being single doesn't look so bad after all. At least you have peace. And peace is royal for me. People aren't always getting together for the good reasons. There's too much situationships that shouldn't be, for ex.
I agree that feeling your heart beating for someone feels good because we feel alive, but if our love interest doesn't reciprocate our feelings it can be devastating. Unrequited love will make us suffer if it last too long.
Being together, I think, is only worth when there's mutual attraction, understanding and affection between both involved ; if the two are willing to put heart and efforts to make the relationship work. If not, it won't last long. Finding love (or it finding you) depends also on what you want and your expectations from the other person. Love can come from attraction, complicity like friendship, it can happen in unexpected places... Listen to your heart, to your mind and see if the person can be a good friend, if they respect you, have human qualities, if you feel comfortable and protected in their presence, share common interests and values... Attraction alone isn't enough for a relationship to work and to last :)
i need to have an edible before ts
love will never be a simple thing and theres poignant differences between types of love.
- self love will always be the most important type of love. that validation that you are strong enough to be able to give yourself, not needing to search for it in another because you know deep down you are strong enough to hold that for yourself
- humans will always crave romantic love (apart from u aros) its not something we control, but we all go about it in our separate different ways.
will we ever understand love?? oneday, maybe. not in this lifetime.
honestly dk whether i should speak on this cus idek if im capable of loving
I like your paragraph on self love
ilikeyour entire parahraphicalness
Thank you :)
I also like your whole paragraph, particularly the one about self love.
Finding love is important, but having self love is vital because it's the foundation to everything. Without it, meeting the right partner and having a succesful relationship, like the rest, is very difficult to achieve. Without it, we rely too much on the other, we may also meet abusers because we lack confidence in ourself. And in case we have to live without love provided by a parter, we'll still be alright.
It resuires strenght, values, self forgiveness and experiences.
I feel your paragraph completes mine :))
It's beautiful
im crying why are u such a sweetiepoo im just a femcel
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People always say you must first love yourself to love another human being but i do. I really do love myself. It took so long for me to love who i am but i finally love the reflection in my mirror and the person i always talk all alone. But after i started to love myself i feel like i forgot how to approach and love another person. Its been so long since i felt that feeling that i started finding ways to make myself believe i can actually feel love again... I know romantic love is not a necessary thing and i know i was always happy being by myself but i started to miss even the sad moments i felt after an unrequited love.
Love is such an interesting feeling that its existence makes me feel so full yet so doubtful but its absence makes me feel so secure yet so empty.
How can one learn to love another person? Can love be learned? Is it something we should chase for? Or is it something that will find its way when its the right time?