what pisses me off is that cane keeps on acting out a proper Master shouldn't actively try to bring you to the point of safe word-ing! while you shouldn't feel bad for using a safe word, it is a signal to say that it's too much for you - and a Dom should try to play with you in a way that is, at most, close to the line, never trying to consciously breach it; yes, having a safe word is important in BDSM relationships, but it shouldn't be the finish goal
what pisses me off is that cane keeps on acting out
a proper Master shouldn't actively try to bring you to the point of safe word-ing! while you shouldn't feel bad for using a safe word, it is a signal to say that it's too much for you - and a Dom should try to play with you in a way that is, at most, close to the line, never trying to consciously breach it;
yes, having a safe word is important in BDSM relationships, but it shouldn't be the finish goal