i thought i wouldnt like this bc of the age gap but i gave it a chance and it did not disappoint!

I mean some age gaps are pretty inconsequential. If we were talking about 18 and 30, that would be incredibly weird, because at 18 you are barely an adult. But if one guy was 30 and the other 50, it would be fine, since they are both in similar life stages if you get what I mean. In this case its a bit of a gray area.