another bad bdsm…

yeah fr. i feel like good bdsm stories are so rare. i use safe words with all my subs , and now every time i see a story like this, a part of me dies....

also tf they need to use lube, ass is not self lubricating TwT

right?! the lack of safety and boundaries always scares me. and it’s so misrepresented, almost always the bdsm is an excuse for sexual abuse

FR!! i had to put the story down and physically cringe at the terrible penetration… zero lube or prep??? and then mc describing it as the best sex ever ?? made me sick

This is my genuine curiosity , because i really wanted to read good bdsm too , please recommend me a good BL bdsm title

i have a really small list of my top ones lmao! since they’re heavily focused on relationship building, i prefer that over strictly sex. also they aren’t perfectly accurate or have a bit of dubious consent

1. this has to be my number one, although unconventional. the dynamic between them is *chefs kiss* and it perfectly portrays the vulnerability of each role, while maintaining that sexual allure and desire. the plays feel raw and safe: https://www.mangago.zone/read-manga/kabukichou_bad_trip/

2. a classic. imagine a love triangle but make it have bdsm and complicated history. i love this one simply for its dramatics, and the exploration of mc’s sexual preferences was unmatched. manipulation is involved in acts, and this is what blurs the lines between business plays, romance, and trust: https://www.mangago.zone/read-manga/from_points_of_three/

3. a less serious take on bsdm. not meant to represent it accurately but i appreciate the characters willingness to try uncomfortable things and even embrace it, discovering boundaries and all. not all plays are healthy or safe, and it tips off this line in order to grow and mold the main romantic relationship: https://www.mangago.zone/read-manga/simplified_pervert_romance/

Thank you so much

I love how you describe each title too , it makes me even more curious to read them , really thank you so much

Hey, I'm like not in the bdsm scene at all, so sorry if I'm being rude in any way, but I'm curious. There is this story I've been following for quite some time now. It's about a d/s relationship and I've wondered if it is a good presentation on bdsm and I would love to hear your thoughts on it! It's 'Ang Ang' : https://www.mangago.zone/read-manga/ang_ang/

not OP, but i quite liked it. i think this is a relationship that could 100% happen, or at least the gist of it. i do think it's a lot more important to communicate tho, d/s is something where u have to communicate or it won't be enjoyable. tho for this story, the lack of communication was relatively "well done" in the sense that it contributed to the story. there's always gunna be unrealistic parts of every story, but i personally think this is quite good!

this isn’t rude in any way!! plus im thankful for the recommendation, i haven’t read it yet (⌒▽⌒). once i get caught up ill come back here asap and let you know what i think <3

thank you so much! It's a

sorry, I accidentally sent my last message without finishing it (￣∇￣") I wanted to say thank you for your answer. It' always nice to see how things work in real life, since I understand that a manhwa won't always try to keep things realistic 'for the sake of the story'.

Oh, no problem! Please let me know as soon as you're caught up :D

haha i myself am not as experienced. i'm a dom so i try my best to research the rules, but i'm not too much "in" the community, if yk what i mean LOL!! if u ever doubt ur knowledge, just remember consent is key, and remember the safeword !! (๑•ㅂ•)و✧

Damn I was so excited for your list and then I realized I already read them all lol

So true... like directly playing is dangerous..and yeah they use safe sign but kind of too late... it should be discussed beforehand.. let's hope reader realize this is all just fantasy and not the way to practice bdsm irl

i almost lost this thread LOL but everyone if you want to read a wholesome bdsm that is accurate try this. it’s one of my recent favorites!!

https://www.mangago.zone/read-manga/tameshi_ni_komando_itte_mita/

right! it’s scary how inaccurately it’s shown and people get an odd impression of bdsm or gay sex in general. i agree, and even though stories don’t have to be completely accurate… it’s like nails to a chalkboard seeing bdsm and anal sex be done extremely awful and uncaringly ╥﹏╥

i read this but im not fully caught up. even though i liked it, i wasn’t the biggest fan because of some things!! it’s not a good presentation of it tbh , id say its a idealized version of bdsm where both parties were REALLY lucky enough to want the extremes of d/s and sadism/masochism

i wasn’t expecting a full blown conversation about their arrangement, but the sex was really rough at some points without any warning. during acts directions, punishments, rewards are important not only for foreplay but for safety. also, i didn’t enjoy how ml mixed the plays with work and everyday life, because it walks a dangerous line of abuse/emotional manipulation instead of only plays. however, again it worked out because both people fully craved a heavy dynamic

don’t let this stop you from enjoying it or considering it your bdsm favorite! i still did and only thought it lacked in aspects. other than these criticisms, their relationship itself is cute and i prefer a pretty top + a beefy handsome bottom ლ(´ڡ`ლ)

tysm!! What you said really makes sense even as a not much educated person on the topic. But I also got the feeling that its kinda weird for them to mix their daily lives with their play, I mean looking at it from a psychological pov. （￣へ￣）
Anyways, thank you so much for taking the time to read the story and write me back. I really appreciate it (≧∀≦)