
I get what you mean, but I don't think it's Tetsuya that was 18 in ch 1. It's unclear who's talking, but if anything I think he's the one who said "you're only 18 yourself" and not that being said to him.
In ch 4, Tetsuya says "the me from back then was the same age you are now" which means they were 15 and 25

Yeah that's true. The part "you're only 18 yourself" I think that's Tetsuya saying to the girl who before called Tomo a child. So yeah, they are 10 years apart.
But honestly I wouldn't call it grooming either way because for that Tetsuya didn't do as much. Paedophilic you could say because of the age difference and the fact that Tomo was only 15. But for grooming he would have needed to do some more shit than just letting him ride on his backseat.
Im not trynna excuse grooming or something but yall actually cant do simple math cuz first chap they said they were 15 and 18 which is 3 yrs and then there was a timeskip to when they were 25 and 22 the age gap is still 3 yrs they didnt magically just grow 9 yrs apart