he didn't help the dude im cryinggg

I had several situations where I'm in that position. Man, you really don't want to get involved in those times. It's hella stressful and tiring （/TДT)/

i understand that too, just can't help but feel bad though especially since he's an omega who's just trying to get through life while pursuing his dreams. why life must be unfair to those who's fighting fairly

Right. I understand both sides. He can't participate cause he got problems too, especially financial.

I get the latter as well, it's annoying going on school events for just attendance especially if it doesn't really concerns you and will only cost you money.