I'm dying at the stupidity in the comments. This isn't about BDSM. This is about mental health, masochism so severe it's a death wish when combined with his actions of getting himself date raped and drugged, ending up in the hospital, and still playing the "we'll break up if you can't handle it" game. This is abuse (yes, an abusive bottom, gasp). Like I'm wondering if he has borderline personality at this point. This isn't about a top "not meeting" the "standards" of a bottom. Heewon definitely isn't perfect but he does try and follow "safe sane consensual" and practices aftercare at least. He cares about his partners health. This bottom doesn't give a SHIT about anyone, any rules or protocol, he DOESN'T CARE ABOUT BDSM. He just wants pain. Not all kink play is BDSM, as in when you end up in the hospital. (In the US that can catch the "top" a legal charge sometimes, even without the "victim" pressing charges). *If you want to complain about the top fine, as I said he's not perfect either and is pretty toxic lol but it doesn't change anything I said about the bottom.
I'm dying at the stupidity in the comments. This isn't about BDSM. This is about mental health, masochism so severe it's a death wish when combined with his actions of getting himself date raped and drugged, ending up in the hospital, and still playing the "we'll break up if you can't handle it" game. This is abuse (yes, an abusive bottom, gasp). Like I'm wondering if he has borderline personality at this point. This isn't about a top "not meeting" the "standards" of a bottom. Heewon definitely isn't perfect but he does try and follow "safe sane consensual" and practices aftercare at least. He cares about his partners health. This bottom doesn't give a SHIT about anyone, any rules or protocol, he DOESN'T CARE ABOUT BDSM. He just wants pain. Not all kink play is BDSM, as in when you end up in the hospital. (In the US that can catch the "top" a legal charge sometimes, even without the "victim" pressing charges).
*If you want to complain about the top fine, as I said he's not perfect either and is pretty toxic lol but it doesn't change anything I said about the bottom.