yaoi.

Yaoi is an interesting genre to read so I can see why a lot of peeps read it . Personally I like the romance more then straight romance.

I'm a guy so I can't actually encourage u lmao .

This is so me like I used to open this website like multiple times a day and I’m so embarrassed because I don’t want to fetishise gay men either but the stories I read on here really kept me hooked.Recently tho I haven’t been reading as much or finding as many things interesting on here so Im thinking it’s a phase of sorts for me - I’m not out of it yet and I don’t think I will be for a while - and I do think it’s like slowly becoming more uninteresting, so maybe it’s just a phase??? Idk honestly I hope it is and I loose interest in yaoi soon or later so it might be a phase for you too

U are not alone..not alone

If you're reading them bc of the smut I will tell you it's a porn addiction but if not I just think it's a hyperfixation
Tbh I was also compulsively reading BL last year and thought I was a horrible person for it, couple moths later I got hooked w some TV shows and started compulsively watching a lot of shows at once and stuff, it clicked after that I just don't know how to regulate myself when I like smth lmao

Ngl you’re one of the tame yaoi fans out there. we all gonna die one day might as well

Ok wtf

This is so real lmfaoo ive been there and I realized i had a yaoi porn addiction bc of how much sex scenes id reread until i became self aware. It honestly just takes time and another hobby to enjoy to lessen that intensity and eventually you’ll find a healthier fixiation

NGL Reading Yaoi with how much sex scenes I've seen literally helped me with my class subject like that was the only thing I actually understood it so easily which also makes it that I have a prn addiction

As long as ur not being weird to gay people irl then ur fine lol I once had a friend who would say they saw "yaoi" irl when they saw 2 dudes holding hands or just being close to each other

LMAOOO thas crazyy

imo, I don't think reading yaoi necessarily means fetishizing gay men because while I enjoy fictional yaoi, I'm cautious about projecting those same feelings onto irl gay people.. it would be weird to do that. For me, I enjoy reading bl simply because I find it entertaining. I also read to kill some the time when I'm bored. moreover, I sometimes don't read bl just for smut scenes bcs it depends on what genre of yaoi u read, in my situation, exploring different bl genres expand my understanding of relationships. It's ok to enjoy things, unless u're not hurting anyone.

If u want to lessen ur time using this web or js reading yaoi in general, u can try liking new hobbies, or something diff to enjoy, in that way, you'll eventually stop reading yaois at some time wo realizing it. I have alternative interests so i dont rlly get fixated on js reading bl, and it works perfectly fine for me.

Reading yaoi can also be a phase, yk? I think I go through this sometimes because when I start to enjoy reading bl again, I might stop for a few months. This usually happens when I feel there's nothing interesting to read. But I always eventually come back to it like nothing happened (ㆁωㆁ)