this part of the recent chapter really got to me honestly, my own grandma passed away two years ago from something like a terminal illness herself…similarly we had decided to not give her any more intensive treatments anymore because it was too risky and taking so much out of her so. it was the same thing of just doing our best for her while waiting for the inevitable :,) i don’t think it’s something you can ever really prepare for. but i think you have the right idea in mind—keep them close and tell them you love them.
So sorry for your loss. I lost all my grandparents and it was hard to say goodbye. So yes knowing parents will not be there forever is extremely scary. And more since I did also lose my nephew who was like my own child since he also considered me his second mom...it was even more difficult when it's a child you watched grow and helped raise. Ugh, and cue tears. Thank you for your kind words.
Understanding Kim Dan's fear of being alone knowing soon his grandma might pass away.
That's me knowing the inevitability that my parents who are in their late 70' and early 80's might have some stupid complication at their ripe age that could potentially take them from me...and even if I am trying to be prepared I know I can never accept it or be ready. So all I can do is care or them and love them unconditionally. Tell them I love them as much as I can.
Kim Dan is so strong. I hope even if Stupid ass appears he remains as strong and keeps him at bay for as long as he can and make him keep suffering.