Plssss

I mean he wasn’t actually sleeping but still CONSENT chat

Well, he consented nonverbally considering he knows what’s happening while pretending to sleep lol

Also, he’s extra handsome today what’s up with that?

Sleeping people don't want tea

@Baizhu I keep seeing ppl discussing this topic and I definitely think differently in regards to significant others. In MY experience and personal opinion unless we have a discussion stating no touching while sleeping all bets are off. I will sucx dat bone until it melts in my mouth. Lol! And I definitely don't mind receiving head/sex while sleeping while in a relationship. It's hot/sexy to be woken up busssn a nuut/cummn. The only thing that would piss me off are face shots while sleeping. But that has been communicated so nothing for me to worry about.

What people need to understand is that each relationship is different based on INDIVIDUAL experiences. Everyone doesn't have those kind of bad/traumatic sexual/relationship experiences. And to generalize and automatically equate it r@pe is ridiculous to me. Also, I've had this discussion with others and most have also communicated it's based on direct/indirect individual experiences. In relationships things aren't all black and white. There are a lot of different variations especially when it comes to kinks and turn ons. But most importantly when beginning a relationship it's important to communicate likes, dislikes, traumas and fears so there can be fewer misunderstandings and altercations. We all can agree that communication is definitely key. Some give me the impression they have no dating experience based on some of these comments/posts.

Also, for those feel the need to come for me because I spoke my mind ┑(￣Д ￣)┍ I ain't backing down on this. I really believe someone ran an agenda because of their bad/traumatic sexual experiences and started venting. Then ppl jumped on the band wagon so not to appear weird or out of compassion. But what's not cool is trying to create a hive mind.

I LOVE being strange/weird/different. I was never good with clicks or hive minded groups. If no one agrees with me thats okay. I make no apologies on who I am or thinking differently. What people think of me is none of my business ヾ(❀╹◡╹)ﾉ~

And for those who are too afraid to speak on this subject, don't be. Just have a conversation with your s/o if you have one. You never know what may appear weird/strange may not be a deal breaker.

This was only a different perspective based on your post. ヾ(❀╹◡╹)ﾉ~

I agree with what you're saying wholeheartedly
thanks for writing this and articulating it so much better than I can

It's cool if this is how you and your partner want to operate but the default should be no sexual touching while sleeping or unconscious unless everyone's clearly consented, even with significant others. So yes if that conversation hasn't happened it is rape -- by law, not just personal experience-- and I think that's what people are reacting to. We definitely haven't seen these two discuss this so from a reader's perspective it's not consensual and even if dude is ok with it on the inside, Gunjoon doesn't know that so he shouldn't do what he's doing

or communicate w ur partner if they like that stuff
probably gonna come up when discussing sex anyway

I completely agree with what you said !! I just forgot to mention in my previous comment that they should communicate first before doing this sorry. But then if they’re all okay with it that’s good.

I don’t mind it too LOL but yeah communication is def top priority (which I forgot to mention so it lead to all the replies sorry again TT)