I'm so sorry that you're going through that sweetie
Your feelings are valid
If possible, give them a taste of their own medicine
If they do it again, you can also try to say something that makes them uncomfortable
Find something they're insecure about and throw a few mean comments in front of others
Bullies should be put in their place
I know you wouldn't want to stoop so low, but you gotta play their game in order to beat them
Thank you so much for validating my feelings and give out some advices! I really appreciate it and it made me happy!
I will try my best to stand up for myself because I genuinely can't take their behavior anymore.. they were in the wrong anyway
You're welcome <3
I hope everything goes well and they get what they deserve
You deserve to be among friends who respect you and make you feel safe
Verbal abuse is not what real friends do
You are so valid to feel like this, sexualizing everything isn't funny in any way it's just annoying and creepy
This made me remember my god-awful middle school classmates, the male students were up to 16 years old and still made a lot of sexualized remarks to me and other female students when we were 10-14 (thinking about it now it just was creepy as hell)
Those kinds of people are so annoying and believe me; you cannot resonate with them with logic. The only real solution I can offer is to completely ignore them (as most of them do that just to attract the attention of other boys). Ignoring them completely by not getting angry or showing any reaction will, in the end, make them get bored and just leave you alone, hopefully.
Ofcc if things get serious, as constantly sexualizing you and things like this, and I believe it's better to tell a trusted adult, and hopefully, at the very least, they will face some kind of disciplinary act by your school.
I hate my classmates so much. Whenever I talk to literally anyone of them, they wouldn't last a day without trying to sexualize jokingly what I said. For example, I said
"Please be careful next time. You accidentally spilled your drink on me and got my shoes wet." They would say "Ohh hey~ she said you got her wet" like what happened to "I'm so sorry! I'll be careful next time."
IT'S SO UNCOMFORTABLE AND IT'S NOT FUNNY AT ALL. I'm just being a little sensitive about this but still.. I don't like their behavior..!! The way they keep sexualizing the things I said is disgusting! One of them also knows that I don't like it but they still keep doing it! Gosh, I wanna transfer schools.
Literally some kind of them also sits behind my back and gosh, all they do is talk about something NASTY. Always the topic behind my back is always sex, sex, sex, nothing fucking else. I didn't intend to listen but they are a distraction!! I told them to stop it but they won't fucking listen. I hate people these days .. especially the lustful ones that don't know how to feel shameful whenever talking about something like that.