i dont think kim dan has the emotional stability to go looking for love right now after just being rejected, quitting his job, and feeling the last moments with his grandma who is dying
Yeah, but I was being hypothetical. I don’t think JJK will be able to find him immediately, like snapping his fingers. Who knows, maybe it will take years before he finds Dan. And it’s not like Dan isn’t a good-looking person. Anyone could be attracted to him, whether he likes them or not. He may not have the energy to deal with love, but if someone can support him through his tough times and is willing to wait for him, we can’t say for sure. Otherwise, JJK will find him in his tough times again, comfort him, and Dan might fall for him once more.
What do you propose?
its possible that he might come across someone unexpectedly who wants to go out of their way and be there for him. i would like him to have some support right now and i think he internally wants it too. i was saying i cant see him going out there looking and searching for love because of everything he is going thru at the moment its probably the last thing on his mind but its possible that it could be something that happens by chance
also i just wanted to add because i suddenly saw it but i dont think the best revenge is finding a new lover or a replacement but instead getting over the relationship and finding happiness. mental stability when you are single and being happy with yourself should always be the first step before getting into a relationship
Let me clarify: "The best revenge is making the other toxic party realize that you can be happy in life without them being part of it." This means finding happiness outside of a toxic relationship—whether on your own or with someone else. It’s about being able to create your own happiness.
I never mentioned anything about a "replacement." Calling someone a "replacement" or labeling a new partner as such is dismissive and rude. It implies something like, "I’ll date this person for now but eventually go back to the toxic relationship." That’s absolutely not what I meant.
We all have different ways of healing, and I wouldn’t suggest someone jump into dating just to fill a void. Doing so could lead to someone toxic hurting a good person because they haven’t healed from their own pain.
I hope you don’t twist my words. You probably misunderstood me, but I felt the need to clarify because it seems like you used the wrong words to express your point, and that’s why I got defensive. (〜￣△￣)〜
i wasnt twisting your words
its what i said, me. i know you didnt mention a replacement, my own words "also i just wanted to add...OR a replacement" that second comment was my own advice for anyone who reads our comment. you keep misunderstanding me and getting defensive im sorry if my word is at fault i'll work better at my english
Apology accepted. Nobody's perfect, and English is also my second language, so I understand the miscommunication. I appreciate your comment and the sharing of ideas. I also thought you were being sarcastic, so I retaliated harshly. I apologize for that, especially if your intentions were good.
We actually share the same thoughts about dating. It's just that my author-like mentality tends to suggest a different timeline to see things from other perspectives.
Back to Jinx, I don't see Dan as a perfect person. Right now, he's in a vulnerable state—battling depression and developing abandonment issues. People in this state of mind often act recklessly or make extreme decisions. They might either reject others entirely or rush into relationships too quickly.
I just deeply hope someone can be there to support him through this difficult time and stop him from self-blaming in case his grandma passes away. Also, I want to say that it's not a sin to be happy. I hope he doesn't restrict himself of attaining happiness and caged himself with negative feelings.
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I don’t know about you, but I want JJK to find Dan trying to find love with someone else. My evil side wants him to feel what Dan was made to feel. The best revenge is making the other toxic party realize that you can be happy in life without them being part of it.
But my good side feels bad for the third party, because we all know Dan will still end up with JJK. I think that will be the trickiest part for the author: being able to convince us.
There’s an easy path, of course, that doesn’t need convincing, but people will complain. We have a term for it in my native language, "marupok." It’s when you advise your friend not to be in a toxic relationship, but that friend is stupidly inlove and emotionally vulnerable so they keep comeback into the toxic relationship.