It actually is kind of a big deal. It’s another toxic heteronormative agenda pushed into these kind of works..
Ok thank you for this, because I thought I was being dramatic so I added it just in case. Good to know that there was a reason I hated this type of thing.
Low-key reminds me of how a woman is tainted for not being a virgin but a boy is praised for being able to hit and lose it, I hate it too lmfao
It has more to do with dom-sub dynamics than gender norms ヾ(❀╹◡╹)ﾉ~
Wanting to "posses" as much as possible your sub/bottom is a common scenario. Wanting to "own" all their first experiences and "see" them for the first time... Is nice (▰˘◡˘▰), you feel more special and being gifted these moments are great (●'◡'●)ﾉ
Most tops (het/gay/etc) without empathy (and/or romantic attraction), will likely not do it for these reasons and mainly to "not be compared to anyone else" or "be the best" cause there is no standards yet for the bottom lol these tops are basically the insecure type and very common unfortunately ╮(￣▽￣)╭
These guys had a romantic story since the 7 yeras ago, and having remained "inexperienced" for all that time gives it a whole bigger meaning to all of it ヾ(☆▽☆)
But I get how these tropes can be repetitive in the her world... At keast for me, this story didnt give me that same vibe... But I could be wrong ヾ(❀╹◡╹)ﾉ~
It annoys me so much when tops want their lover or the bottom to be a virgin while all this time hooking with others. It would’ve been nice had it been their first time together. but it’s dumb lmaoo.