I mean not necessarily (? most gay man irl are not exclusively a top or a bottom so he could also be like that for Mr kang
Most of the gay men I've met definitely have their preferences. I mean, love overcomes all, but I doubt they would have worked out.
Imagine saying that gay men love relationships are defined by a SEX POSITION omg...
I've seen a lot of relationships that haven't worked out because they both preferred one way. They have always ended up great friends, but it just wouldn't work out relationship wise. And their partners knew that they had tried to hook up in the past, but it didn't work out. The gay community is kinda small wherever you go, and you always know someone who knows someone else LOL It's a small world in the PNW
you're right btw, a lot of queer people and allies online claim it doesn't matter even thought it does in real life! sexual compatibility is important, even straight people know that lol
I have straight friends whose relationships didn't work out cause they had different sex drives (their sex drive was low and their partner's was high). I'm gay myself, and prefer to bottom. it's great if you're open for anything in the bedroom, but you cannot assume everyone is the same way
100%!
I mean, they aren’t defined by that alone but as a gay individual, sexual compatibility is definitely important. It would be like the equivalent of a man being into a woman but the woman is into pegging and he’s not down for that. Sometimes it just doesn’t work out because of sexual preferences regardless of the sexuality of the individuals.
So, they never would have worked out anyway since they're both tops