In this case, the toxic seme. Because, you know, when you fall hard in love, you can't see all the atrocities that your loved one do with you or with the other people. And I hope the toxic relationship ends and the uke finds someone who respects and trully loves him. Example: Doronuma.
I was about to say this. Agreeable
How are you going to be mad at someone for being stupid over someone who is intentionally hurting others? Frustration from the outside looking in is normal because everyone always thinks “well that’s not how I would have handled that” but to be full on mad at the victim over the manipulator is a little … like if you have a friend who’s dating a shitty person are you going to be mad at your friend? Or are you going to hate their partner?
True, thank you for this perspective! I usually hate on toxic semes, but sometimes it gets a little frustrating when the uke is too desperate to realize they deserve better :')
Uhhh ok lmao first of all from which part of my post did you get "full on mad at the victim"??? Are you... okay? Why are YOU mad? That's embarrassing lmaoooo projection is an odd thing! I was just "ranting" to my friend because I wanted the uke to have "self-respect" in case you forgot how to read <3
Yeah, it's so frustrating that the uke can't see that the other one is toxic. All we can do is hope that the relationship ends and uke has a happy ending with someone else.
In cases where the uke is kinda blinded by love like Hangyul and the seme is toxic like Eunhan, who are you usually angry at more? The uke for being dumb or the seme for being an asshole?
Because I was ranting to my friend about doormat ukes and how much I wish they'd have self-respect instead of staying with the toxic seme and he was like, "You should hate on the toxic seme. Not the victim."
Chat I was speechless!!! What should I reply back oh my gosh I hate being wrong lmao