let the tear dams open

oh gosh this is exactly why i hate it when people so carelessly "want to have kids" just so they have an extension of themselves or because they feel like it's some personal goal to reach. there so much emotional intelligence we need to raise a kid, and so many difficult situations will come up that it's so daunting. ai and nao are doing so well, how nice would it be if all parents give the same thoughtfulness to their children