Why would describe someone you adopted as grown up to be your ideal man? And why would you say that he'd be better if he was 10 years older?? Those are the common signs of grooming. And how do you groom yourself? He's a victim who's only seen one man his whole life of course he's gonna cater to him? You're literally victim blaming. Dafuq you mean grooming himself? Are you brain dead?
Just because he said that downs tmean he is grooming. Mc didn’t for anything on the ml. The ml took it upon himself to play soccer after mc said he liked soccer and then mc was talking about another person getting into a good university ml decided on that to and if mc said anything else he liked ml decided to make himself the perfect man for the mc so mc can like him and obviously the last chapter is the mc leaving so the ml can leave him alone since mc was the one that basically raised him.
You know grooming isn't just about sexual interaction right? Groomers will treat you so good that even the victims themselves think that they are in love with them when in reality they don't. Doing all those good things for him doesn't dismiss the fact that he finds the kid attractive and that he had the thought of him as an ideal partner and hello?? This is yaoi they're gonna end up together even in those massive age gap. And just look at him blushing at everything they do like a creep. This might just be fiction but this gives a disturbing narrative to the audiences. Wake up!
"He has become more and more my type"????? HUH "my ideal man"???? HUH????? Why is everyone cool with this and why are people defending this man?? That's why male victims will always be prevalent this kid is being groomed and y'all are okay with that??