The mangaka wants both to not talk things right? Not only him but also her, she made her mind when she got married and he has told him multiple times to talk to him, he also always says she IS his wife and shows love with actions, somehow the FL still doubts and doesn't talk at all, doesn't even crosses her mind even if they already went through the samr issue like 3 times already.
About the ML I agree with both, he is your usual stoic , "show love mostly through actions" but lacks the words in the really important moments.
Is a good story but the mangaka should stop relying in the miscommunication aspect so much.
Does it ever occur to them, like, let's talk. What is in your heart! What's wrong with you! Are you feeling sad? Why are you Sad? Today we will talk our heart out and then make out with body.
I mean i'm no against all those spices moment, rather I seek for those, but I got my patience, I mean you know...
Hope somebody understand my feelings.