Lol! The reading the side stories for the kids is so relatablee
Do you realize that abandoning is abuse? Neglect is a big form of abuse. Abuse doesn’t have to be physical. She is just as bad as the father, or we can agree to disagree. She knows that the father tries to pimp her out, and still left Hyesung behind, and the father tried to pimp Hyesung out.
The family situation with Dojin and Hyesung are not comparable. Hyesung was abandoned by his family and has unpleasant history with his “mother”, whereas Dojin is on a much better terms with his family than Hyesung.
When dojin’s family didn’t accept hyesung and byul.”
SO IT WAS ABOUT HYESUNG TOO, not DOJIN. Of course he would go behind and involve himself. It wasn’t like it’s a personal issue of Dojin’s like Hyesung’s personal issue of abandonment. That’s why it’s so hurtful that Dojin is going behind Hyesung’s back when it’s ABOUT Hyesung’s personal issue that he doesn’t want to forgive really.
And it’s not like Hyesung meant to keep it hidden from Dojin either for long. Whereas here Dojin is continuously hiding it, that’s the issue.
HYESUNG DOES NOT WANT TO SEE THE MOTHER WHO LEFT HIM, DO YOU NOT UNDERSTAND? And the least Dojin could do is RESPECT Hyesung’s wishes, and not keep it hidden.
Speaking from someone who’s been abused, no abused is more terrible than physical and sexual abuse. Child neglect could never be compare. But yeah we can agree to disagree.
It is comparable bc they BOTH went behind each other’s back. That’s fact
How is it not personal for dojin when it’s HIS FAMILY?
where in my message did you assume I want hyesung to see the mother? I said that the author is gonna do the forgiveness troupe and that the mother had to do a lot for me to forgive her.
Anyways, I’m excited for the drama to happen and byul and dojin (especially dojin) are gonna be in big trouble.
I didn’t say that you said that Hyesung wants to see the mother though? It’s just a statement that Hyesung wouldn’t want to see the mother that abandoned him.
ABUSE IS NOT A COMPETITION. NEGLECT OR ABANDONMENT (which is neglect severe form) = Abuse. All I said is that Neglect is abuse, but you turn it into a competition because that’s how you see it? And I’m saying this as someone who’s been abused (abandoned by mother, which I cut contacts with). That’s why I’m replying so strongly. Abandonment issues, I feel like you’re undermining it severely!
No, it is not comparable. It’s not personal for Dojin because he’s not the one being hated or ostracized by the family. You’re comparing that to someone who’s been abandoned and abused by family, and has asked to not involve the grandmother in their family life.
Dojin didn’t prevent Hyesung from seeing his family, that’s the difference. Dojin doesn’t have a reason to prevent him, whereas Hyesung does because his mother left him when he needed her. He’s hurt and that’s a reason to not see his mother.
All I’m saying is that Dojin supporting the mother who abandoned Hyesung is not right, going behind Hyesung’s back is WRONG.
Hyesung also intended to tell Dojin and Dojin would’ve found out anyways, so that’s another reason why I’m explaining to you that their situations are NOT comparable. Meanwhile, Dojin is continuously hiding it despite knowing how Hyesung would feel about that.
DOJIN KNOWS WHAT HYESUNG WENT THROUGH DUE TO HIS MOTHER, so he should know better than to support the mother who hurt Hyesung.
And also I apologize if I did sound like an asshole in any way, but respectfully, neglect is a big form of abuse. You’re literally being left behind by your family, no parental guidance and by the way, Hyesung was only a kid at the time his mother left him.
Child neglect is serious, just as physical and sexual abuse is.
Also in case you forgot, the mother knows that the father tried to pimp her out. But she still abandoned Hyesung, and Hyesung’s father wanted to pimp Hyesung out.
I do hope Hyesung yells and smacks Dojin because he deserves it. He should respect Hyesung’s wishes of not involving the mother in their life. As for Byul, I’m lenient with him because Byul doesn’t know the reason as to why Hyesung doesn’t want to see his mother.
You say that sexual abuse is more terrible than child abuse, then how come you’re defending Dojin? All I heard was: Yes Dojin did rape Hyesung, but anyways—
And you and I can just block each other, since you do not hold logic and empathy.
Nahh u ATEEE. I love ur response and ofc this welcome person won't ever reply(as far as I can see here) LMFAO they literally couldn't defend their nonsense logic. And all I could see is just them blaming the mc, and I'm gonna bet that they r one of those ppl who also hated on the mc when he got rped and had to give birth all while they were 21
I can bet on that they’re just a hater. Thank you for the sweet response! :)
To the people who hate dojin bc he went behind hyesung’s back to contact the mother I understand, but y’all do realize that hyesung did the same thing for him when dojin’s family didn’t accept hyesung and byul, and hyesung later came with byul in the stroller to dojin’s family behind his back right?
The author is obviously trying to make the forgiveness troupe but at least the mother is better than hyesung’s father. The mother abandon hyesung which is fuck up but she never abused hyesung like his father. If the author made dojin go behind hyesung’s back to see the father, that would have made me drop the season but I’m tolerating bc it’s the mother.
However, the mother needs to do more for me to forgive her.
to the dojin OG haters, like why are you here? Dojin raped hyesung, yes. Dojin however never baby trapped him. Hyesung made that decision to be a surrogate and receive money from dojin, that was HIS choice. Another thing is that WE ARE NOT IN THE MAIN STORY! There’s no point on mentioning the main story when we’re focusing on Byul. Y’all need to stop with the hating the comments. If I can fucking tolerate reading kiss me liar side story (god forbid I fucking hate kiss me liar and only read the side story to see the kid), I’m sure you can too.