Exactly I totally agree. The relationship is supposed to be equal so why can't he bottom sometimes.
That is so true, I wish he wasn't so selfish about it, they could have switched.
I couldn't agree more
I totally agree. and It's annoying other ppl are ok with this because "it always happens in yaoi" and shit
Yeah, its the kind of answer that I kid will give. So we can apply it in everything and relax.
I agree with you. I've read a comic where the uke want to switch position. the seme accept and let the uke topping him.but in the end the uke feels like he can't do this cause his clumsy and it's hurt for the seme. so they just have sex like they used to.
and I thought this kind of story more cute and pleased...
jesus comments complaining about heteronormative shit while doing it themselves
bottom isn't a bad position lol
yes, maybe in those stories the bottoms want to switch, but why do you all imply (even saying it would be okay reversed) that the 'poor' bottom is in such a bad position and for him to be equal in the relationship he has to top? why the fuck would a guy need to stick his dick in his partner to have an equal relationship?? do i need to force my bf to succumb to all my sexual preferences to be equal? does a woman need to top her man for that too? or isn't it exactly the fact that you think a gay guy who bottoms is treated like a poor woman w/o power in the relationship until he tops which is the problem.
none of you have an actual problem with the seme not joining all the sexual preferences (which is completely 100% fine in a relationship, compromise, not be forced to do sth you utterly don't want to do bc that's not equal either)
you're literally angry at a person not letting a guy put his dick in them..like he has a magically right for that in a relationship? only bc they are gay tho, bet none of you would mind if a girl wouldn't let her bf stick it in her (ass))
all you complain about is that he doesn't bottom for the poor usual botttom, how unfair if he does it and is okay with it right?
the only problem in those yaois is the never ending implication that bottom is a worse position and all the bottoms rather top at some point lol
i know more gays that prefer being a bottom and even those who would never top than the other way around, it's also the bottom who has all the power, it's his ass after all
i also want more healthy realistic switching in yaoi, but with your comments your part of the problem, not the solution
OmfG! Thank you SO, SO, SOOOO MUCH for this! Those were exactly my thoughts as well!
I hate it when the uke wants to be top but the seme is like no no no it's not possible
I mean I hate that sort of selfish person who doesn't believe in equality in a relationship
if he'd like to be a bottom rather than top it was fine but in this case it's ANNOYING