and if you can’t seem to fully understand this type of politics and academia, you are either too young to understand or are probably a colonial homophobic tourist :•|
if you can’t understand queer nuance, you also probably aren’t mature enough for this website or anything yaoi related.
and i’m done arguing with white ppl and children so if you come at me homophobically arguing against this, you will blocked on site. and that might sound hypocritical, but @Meandme literally fucking lied about me calling them a slur. if you think “homophobic tourist” is a slur, oh bitch, you definitely benefit from white privilege or colonialism, cuz only those kinds of ppl call non-slurs slurs and get offended by it. seems like i hit a nerve or spoke a truth
Notice how everyone says this but never manages to find out where the author said that because she didn't say that, it wasn't focused on bl ofc everyone knows the main focus was psychological thriller. Although she has said she didn't want to romanticize the relationship between an abuser and that of a victim as it often happens in bls and most media, she never denied the bits of "romantic" aspect in the manhwa. Yes it isn't meant to romanticized but it's still a yaoi
you don’t come to me spouting colonial exclusionist homophobic rhetoric, lie about me calling you a “slur” (homophobic tourist, if anyone was wondering), and then block me like the little bitch you are.
this is why queer history and education is important. ESPECIALLY education about queer identity and expression that is DECOLONIAL. cuz that’s how you get people spouting things like “killing stalking isn’t yaoi” or “heartstopper isn’t BL”
like yall need to WAKE UP and stop downplaying and erasing queer stories like that. yaoi/BL can be multifaceted whether or not the author doesn’t realize it yet. stop dictating what can’t or can be considered “yaoi.” dictating is a white man’s thing. WAKE UP