I believe he needs therapy what with that mindset... Enduring pain for one's sake and calling it love is just idk man I don't see it as bdsm anymore he's not even enjoying the pain he's keeping silent through it also.. No safe word... Well damn therapy it is
this is exactly why I dropped it.. it became too frustrating to read because the victim kept suffering and the abuser just kept abusing thinking it was "consensual" disappointed to see nothings changed
I believe he needs therapy what with that mindset... Enduring pain for one's sake and calling it love is just idk man I don't see it as bdsm anymore he's not even enjoying the pain he's keeping silent through it also.. No safe word... Well damn therapy it is