Feels like everyone is one sided blaming the top when the uke has also been doing some shi...

Feels like everyone is one sided blaming the top when the uke has also been doing some shit. I mean he's saying stuff about lying but like lmao you lied first? Talk about being a hypocrite? The top is a control freak who's basically so obsessed he would probably lock the uke up also his bad habit of making everything physical like it's all sex. But the uke too, he's lied about his whole personality basically and is terrified of people finding out so much he kind of puts the top in the back burner, like the friend telling the top shit but instead of telling him to stop he'd rather just avoid the situation. Like dude he's talking crap about your boyfriend?
Idk they both need couple therapy