somebody save my soul

21 here and i'm friendless in univ. i definitely go solo for 3 years

I don't have friends before but I'm 21 now and most of my friends are loners/soloists/introverts like me... Don't worry! You'll find the right person to be friends with. :)

21 here and missing basic social skills :D lets make a club together

23 here, and I have two best friends I met 3 years ago at uni, the friends you make at 20 or older are the ones who tend to stay by your side because you know what kind of people who deserve you and you will make an effort for them, so will they for you.

ahh good luck to us making friends ╮(￣▽￣)╭

ohh that seems nice! i have a friend that's anti social and hate human interaction like me too, but i cant really seem to open myself up to her either （￣へ￣）thanks so much!!! (tsukki is my fav from haikyuu thanks for blessing me senpai) (づ￣ ³￣)づ

ahahha we're in the same boat then :> what club would you wanna start? (= · ω · =)

We could all form a group on one of the social medias; line, facebook, WhatsApp, whichever. A group with a common hobby is likely to find a friend and develop some social interaction, virtual it might be though, nonetheless some interaction it shall be. A bit of humanizing when we feel like so we won't feel completely lonely and enjoy our introverted and anti-social self's without reserve.

Not to worry you all but good luck making longlasting friends at 20+. I personally feel like people are so busy with jobs, dating and generally getting ready to make a family that they're much harder to befriend.

hello!! thank you so much for the advice, really appreciate it!! (づ￣ ³￣)づ
I do have a group of friends i made in polytechnic, but sometimes i do feel looked down on and me (and another friend) are the only ones trying to appease them even though we are not the ones at fault lol. ヽ(`Д´)ﾉ they can easily turn something they did wrong into our responsibilities and they don't even try to think from my point of view... =___=

hmm true, i never had anybody to talk to about anime/manga/yaoi. We could but I don't know how to start something social haha. tbh I was scared of interaction even behind the keyboard lol i've never posted any comments anywhere ever (￣∇￣") took me days to post this question (〜￣△￣)〜...

yeah, everybody's priorities are on building their lives and i'm still confused with mine ahaha. thank you for your opinion tho i'll take note!! (≧∀≦)

It is good that you at least have one by your side, who is more than enough. It is not necessary to have a bunch of people to understand you but one person sharing the same faith and understanding even though you might argue at moments is WAY more than enough. And honey, you don't have to appease or please anyone when they are completely to be blamed, a part of growing up is taking no bullshit from anyone (at least that is what I learned) just walk away from people who hurt you because you are too precious.
Also, someone mentioned about long lasting friends, if you don't make an effort to stay by their side obviously it won't last. My friends and I don't talk or meet every day of the week but when we do like once in a blue moon it is like continuing a convo from last time. Our schedules are hectic and crazy one being an architect student, other a mass communication student and me a med student, it all about making an effort once you find the right friends. One day you will find the right people and just suddenly you will be friends. All I can say is, if you want a person to talk to and is understanding, I will be glad to listen and help anyway I can.

I really do appreciate that one friend, and we have been growing closer even though we don't share the same interests, she's the only one who tries to understand me. For some reason we're scared of the others cause they always throw tantrums, and we can't even have a normal outing in peace lol.

I dont even know if I actually want to make friends, I'm just clueless on how to start this whole friendship thing tbh. But i guess i've always wanted to make some friends who don't put me down all the time. #－.－)
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Thank you so much for the life advice (づ￣ ³￣)づ Yes please, I'll love to have somebody I can talk to, it felt good getting some things off my chest :'')))

(▰˘◡˘▰) Anytime

You're welcome (⌒▽⌒)