Also have to add that men imposed this purity on women so that they can act out their twisted defloration fantasies on young girls. It’s only ever young girls cause god forbid an older woman was a virgin then she’s a pain in the ass, bitter spinster. Nothing is more gratifying for men than to take bodily autonomy from a woman. The men may not care at the end of the day, but boy did they make up the concept of purity so they can feel the satisfaction of destroying that said purity
You said so much truth...
Its disgusting in a way, really anyway you twist it, its disgusting.
Their obsession to being the first to do sth so intimate only to destroy said soul needs to be studied...
Right? And like I had a hard time finding words to describe it too because what I said does not even describe the problem adequately. Its so evil and cruel, that men can casually hate the other sex so vehemently. It’s so engrained in our collective minds to always hate women that even women unconsciously and consciously do it and even the most feminist men are often times more misogynist than not. I’m not pointing fingers or denouncing anyone’s support but it’s just the way it is
It's about the concept of being a Noble lady and being "pure"... We can see that this useless Duke Atlas STILL WANTS the FL even though she's married.. Surely, he knows she has been intimate with her HUSBAND but does not care...
... Anyway, what I am trying to say is that they use this Purity/virginity as a form of control for the ladies cause at the end of the day the boys do not care.
This goes to MOST AUTHORS who go out of their way to make their FL pure/virgin while the ML is always so abstract.
Before y'all come for me, THERE IS NOTHING wrong with being a virgin except when it is used as a weapon...
Thank you for reading...