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sweety1997 November 23, 2024 9:47 pm

can anyone tell me their age difference in first life?
Kang Muhyeok was 19, but how old is the Guide Colonel? From what I think I got he should be 34 or something. Girl this is insane. No wayyyyyyyy. Why they had to make the age difference this big for no reason? And pls don't come with the "is a different universe" stuff. IDC. Ah maaaan this makes me uncomfortable, cause apart from that everything else is perfect so far. I pray that I got the age of Colonel wrong though dang.

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    monochan257 November 24, 2024 3:26 pm

    I think he was in his late twenties early thirties but I could be wrong

    Ga01my November 27, 2024 6:50 pm

    Let's me do my calculation...
    Hm Colonel died at 34yo, and 6years working with Muhyeok.
    When they met, Colonel should be 34-6=28yo? And Muhyeok 19yo at that time...
    So like 28-19=9?

    somnia November 28, 2024 12:40 am
    Let's me do my calculation...Hm Colonel died at 34yo, and 6years working with Muhyeok.When they met, Colonel should be 34-6=28yo? And Muhyeok 19yo at that time... So like 28-19=9? Ga01my

    Maybe I'm just cooked but that aint that bad. It's not like their relationship was romantic to begin with, lover boy just been pining.

    nvvrxz November 28, 2024 4:19 am
    Maybe I'm just cooked but that aint that bad. It's not like their relationship was romantic to begin with, lover boy just been pining. somnia

    yea it ain’t that bad, my uncle from my mom side has a whopping 17 year age gap. don’t ask why

    •ERZA• November 28, 2024 4:40 am
    Let's me do my calculation...Hm Colonel died at 34yo, and 6years working with Muhyeok.When they met, Colonel should be 34-6=28yo? And Muhyeok 19yo at that time... So like 28-19=9? Ga01my

    Not that big of a gap then, its good good haha

    nvvrxz November 29, 2024 1:46 am
    Not that big of a gap then, its good good haha •ERZA•

    damn girl if 17 isn’t that big then what’s big for u

    •ERZA• November 29, 2024 2:45 am
    damn girl if 17 isn’t that big then what’s big for u nvvrxz

    No not the 17 uears age gap I meant the 9 years age gap between MC and ML

    Ga01my November 29, 2024 3:51 am
    No not the 17 uears age gap I meant the 9 years age gap between MC and ML •ERZA•

    I also wonder how much is called a big ge gap?
    I don't have a very definition about it

    sweety1997 November 29, 2024 4:01 am
    I also wonder how much is called a big ge gap?I don't have a very definition about it Ga01my

    Age-gap relationships are fine, but depending on the younger ones age it differs. A 17 year old should never be with someone above 18/19. A 18 year old should never be with someone above 20. A 20 year old should never be with someone above 23. A 21 year old is okay with people up to 25. And after 25 you can gradually increase the gap and is fine, but max 5 years until you are around 27-29 when you can date whoever. Even though I would wait until 30-35 to date people 20+ years older than you.

    Why?

    Ask the human brain why. It does not mature like the rest of the body does. Just cause the body is done growing, doesn't mean your mind is done. It takes life-experience to be able to be in an equal relationship with people with life experience. You will always be manipulable and gullible and disadvantaged in a relationship with someone that is older than the approximate limits I gave. Always. And you will probably convince yourself you are not manipulated. That you are equal. That he loves YOU and not that he has more influence than you over you ( so much so you don't even notice). Plus it speaks volumes of someone who dates people to young and also those who end up with people to old.

    This age gap situation was so unneccessary.

    nvvrxz November 30, 2024 1:55 am
    I also wonder how much is called a big ge gap?I don't have a very definition about it Ga01my

    True true.. cause in my culture it’s doesnt matter unless the guy is good, rich, healthy educated blah blah blah.