Age-gap relationships are fine, but depending on the younger ones age it differs. A 17 year old should never be with someone above 18/19. A 18 year old should never be with someone above 20. A 20 year old should never be with someone above 23. A 21 year old is okay with people up to 25. And after 25 you can gradually increase the gap and is fine, but max 5 years until you are around 27-29 when you can date whoever. Even though I would wait until 30-35 to date people 20+ years older than you.
Why?
Ask the human brain why. It does not mature like the rest of the body does. Just cause the body is done growing, doesn't mean your mind is done. It takes life-experience to be able to be in an equal relationship with people with life experience. You will always be manipulable and gullible and disadvantaged in a relationship with someone that is older than the approximate limits I gave. Always. And you will probably convince yourself you are not manipulated. That you are equal. That he loves YOU and not that he has more influence than you over you ( so much so you don't even notice). Plus it speaks volumes of someone who dates people to young and also those who end up with people to old.
This age gap situation was so unneccessary.
can anyone tell me their age difference in first life?
Kang Muhyeok was 19, but how old is the Guide Colonel? From what I think I got he should be 34 or something. Girl this is insane. No wayyyyyyyy. Why they had to make the age difference this big for no reason? And pls don't come with the "is a different universe" stuff. IDC. Ah maaaan this makes me uncomfortable, cause apart from that everything else is perfect so far. I pray that I got the age of Colonel wrong though dang.