He would ve changed too if they were rich, he was always prone to cheating and hurting her, poverty just showed it. “ Love is not love which alters when it alteration finds”.
mmm, maybe your right but i still have doubts. when you see his pov in that one chapter where he sleeps with that other woman he just isnt happy in a luxury lifestyle like that. he tries to convince himself he likes this while insulting the girl at the same time. dont know, feels like the poverty and miscarriage holds more weight as to why it failed than his commitment to her
but i still gotta wait for the full pov, i really wanna
see his backstory that isnt na haeseoos view but his
I get what you’re saying but don’t forget he literally took a debt in her name then divorced her so he wouldn’t be tied to that debt and forced her to work so hard so many part time jobs just to pay for it, he’s an asshole and doesn’t love her. It might have been youth “love” but it wasn’t mature, real or responsible. She had a low standard unfortunately because she was abused and beaten by her family, she craved love and acceptance. This made her believe that he actually loved her. She was struggling so far in order not to lose that “ security blanket love” but deep inside she knows he has stopped loving her and he ruined her life. No redemption arc is enough to make me like him or ( forgive ) him.
all those years down the drain, what poverty can really do to people is insanely sad. maybe thats naive, i dont he’d ever love someone like the way he loved her probably ever again. its just circumstances change every dynamic possible with the love of your life and this is a common case.