Mildred could also question the validity of her feelings. Like if there is some force interfering with her thoughts and emotions as with the "Cinderella" plot that was supposedly planted in her brain. This could be why she required some distance from someone involved with protection/fairy blessing or simply needed just time for herself to process the information she learned.
But author could better convey her standing to us.
Why it is not written clearly so we don't have to take guesses.
I might be wrong since I didn't reread to analyze this deeply
#1
Current Mildred was pulled from her world to theirs + had her memories removed because Daniel did not step in as the moderator of Bella's Protection
What Daniel is saying is that if he took up the role of being a moderator earlier, he COULD'VE prevented Mildred's transmigration and solved the OG!Mildred's problem w/o it
The problem with the current situation is that, we don't know if Current Mildred had a choice in the matter. There's a high chance that the Blessing took her by force & essentially erased her original identity w/o her consent -> taking away her personal autonomy (w/c is a great wrong, in my opinion)
Also her deep despair in the OG!World doesn't necessarily mean she'll want to slowly erase who she originally was (w/c the Blessing might've done on their own to smoothen the transition -> no one's entirely sure yet at this pt)
#2
I don't think it's permanent.
For me, he's acting that way coz he feel deeply sorry and apologetic (rightfully so) for the consequences of his willful negligence and is trying to make it up to Mildred as much as he can.
#3
I'm not sure as well :))
My head canon is, he's either subject to the law of causality or it's just not in their nature as fairies to deeply involve themselves in how society is run and/or can and will only perform big miracles if there's a VERY deep wish attached to it
I'm kind of confused about Mildred and Daniel.
1st what was that Daniel did that was so unforgivable/so worth of Mildred feeling angry with him except of not telling her about the background information he had on her troublesome case/jigsaw sooner?
As she said herself, she was probably miserable to get into contract with higher forces. And she never felt like returning back from where she came.
2nd I get the vibes "step on me" from Daniel. And I don't like it.
Why would he turn from nice supporting character into Casey no. 2? It was nice of him that he formerly gave Mildred some space to actually contribute to her own happiness, to let her try and grow... but it has all gone now. I'm a bit disappointed but still impressed it did not happen sooner... at least not at this scale.
3rd so he can do magic. But just for others or what? Since he is half-fairy I suppose he has not the whole capability of granting wishes or doing magic. I got the impression that protection and magic is essentially the same thing and one needs to feel a huge load of desperation to get his attention and than maybe have their wishes granted but it seems my impression was wrong. He says he will do anything for Mildred and he even heals prince on demand (I don't remember his name). So as long as it is for others, he can do anything? They only have to feel a slight feeling of need? I didn't notice in the story that he manifested anything for himself ever... but I didn't focus on that matter either. I WANT TO KNOW MORE ABOUT HIS POWERS! So I can judge if and how he could contribute to the society so far. I need to know this! I need to know if he's been granting wishes to a few elected or what...
And I appreciate that Lily was honest with Casey and told him bluntly what is wrong with the marriage on her side.
But girl... I know he is supposed to be handsome but... he didn't even say he will try to adapt to your vision of a good life. Not that it would change anything because actions speak louder than words. :D
I can understand that it's tempting to hear those words from masculine, protective figure that did not mock you for having unreasonable or unattainable dreams and visions, I think... Especially in this setting of story.
Ashley is cute and clueless but eager! I can feel the little flame that is burning within her, ready to ignite new, great experiences, views and opportunities! This girl has so much potential in my eyes and ... my thought train departed and went too far away... I don't remember what I wanted to say. Whatever. Fingers crossed in hope of fine character development and setting with as little plot holes as possible!