Broke but your partners Bday is approaching, what to plan?

jackjack November 22, 2024 12:14 am

I need ideassssssss

literally there is nothing to do because everything costs money ;;;.
zoo? money. Picnic? money and hot ass sun. movies? money and BORING

any cute ideas?
my partners bday is literally next week and ive been stumped for a month.

the only thing ive come up with it cooking for them a traditional meal that their grandma used to make for them as a surprise. since me and their granny have the same cultural background.
but ingredients arent cheap Σ(っ°Д °;)っ

Responses
    PrettyMenSupremacy November 22, 2024 12:16 am

    If you got a big ass glass jar, start folding paper stars and fill it up then decorate it very nicely. YUH

    Sunny days November 22, 2024 12:24 am

    Write a letter/poem about how much you like them and gift it to them

    PupPupPuppy November 22, 2024 12:41 am

    origami roses are also a life saver, plus you can attach cute letters to them!

    Shookynim November 22, 2024 12:55 am

    Compile a cute small scrapbook , with letter or a a music playlist and maybe get some candy to give on the side :)

    Nijole November 22, 2024 1:19 am

    The meal idea sounds really good. A lot of traditional recipes can have pretty cheap ingredients. Maybe do just a small amount of meat & then a bunch of cheaper side dishes

    Soobin November 22, 2024 1:55 am

    i mean hey i took a look at your profile so i assume you wont be shocked by what ima say, if you guys r intimate and lovey dovey read this if your not i suggest go for a walk or bike ride but read this

    ONLY READ IF YOU ARE COMFORTABLE BEING INTIMATE WITH UR PARTNER IF NOT PLEASE CLOSE THE COMMENT!!!

    - a sexual tension with music and let it climb up

    - put a blindfold on them and slowly carress their body so they start getting all fidgety

    - have a talk and compliment them alot at home then start talking about the way they make u feel and look at them with a loving face

    before u act like wtf am i doing i can assure ive done 2 of these things and my lover absolutely loved it

    Nobody November 22, 2024 2:00 am

    There has to be free things you can do around your city. Maybe try googling “free things to do around x?”

    jackjack November 22, 2024 2:50 am
    i mean hey i took a look at your profile so i assume you wont be shocked by what ima say, if you guys r intimate and lovey dovey read this if your not i suggest go for a walk or bike ride but read this ONLY REA... Soobin

    hi hi saw your comment. didnt expect u to check out my profile lol.

    i appreciate your suggestions, altho i had other kinds stuff in mind.
    i am actually not that intimate (they are tho) as im actually asexual/aromantic and have a hard time feeling anything in intimate situations as im always confused on wtf to do.
    cant go with the flow if i dont catch the flow, if that makes sense.
    But learning process so ill definitely take these ideas for future reference...
    how to even start and how not to feel awkward is another issue for these situations.
    sighhh

    jackjack November 22, 2024 2:51 am
    There has to be free things you can do around your city. Maybe try googling “free things to do around x?” Nobody

    sadly no. cuz i live in a small country and, well there isnt a lot to do

    jackjack November 22, 2024 2:58 am
    The meal idea sounds really good. A lot of traditional recipes can have pretty cheap ingredients. Maybe do just a small amount of meat & then a bunch of cheaper side dishes Nijole

    good idea.
    granted its a lot of effort so there is a part of me that wants to make quite a bit so im able to share with my family.

    Nijole November 22, 2024 3:11 am
    good idea. granted its a lot of effort so there is a part of me that wants to make quite a bit so im able to share with my family. jackjack

    If you’re sharing with family you could ask them to help a bit with buying ingredients

    jackjack November 22, 2024 7:55 pm
    If you’re sharing with family you could ask them to help a bit with buying ingredients Nijole

    mmm facts